"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interesting Results From Lifting Often

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hey all,
i have made some interesting observations since i started a new workout program a week ago. I lift 5 days a week, monday through friday; the most i have ever lifted is 3 days a week.

heres what ive noticed; my sex drive has gone insane, im 19, but i feel like im 13/14 years old again. im getting random boners in class just from seeing a girl and thinking nearly every girl is bonable, even not so hot ones. also, i know i should be sleeping 8 hours a night. but i have become an insomiac. i literally sleep 3 hours a night, and i feel great! not even like im tired at all or groggy. i have no problem getting up early or going to bed late. i dont know if this is normal or whats going on, but im loving these results.

has anyone else ever experienced this?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How do you know that having random boners in class and having insomnia is related to lifting more often? Since I started lifting, I can't say that I have gotten less sleep or popped more boners than before. Taking in more caffeine can give you insomnia and more boners can't it, as well as an infinite amount of other factors. Not to sound like a bummer or anything :p

-Freddie
 

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The sex drive is definitely a side effect from the lifting. You'll have an increased testosterone presence in your body, and testosterone = horny.
 

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Ahhhh, to be 13 1/2 again.... :p

Yeah, keep it up. Take advantage of that testosterone rush...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sorry to ask but, have you actually made any gains on this program, or are you just in it for the boners?
 

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Originally posted by Alpine
Sorry to ask but, have you actually made any gains on this program, or are you just in it for the boners?
don't ever make me laugh again when I have oatmeal porridge in my mouth :D
 

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well, ive only been on it for a week, so its to early to tell, these were just the immediate results
 

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What you may find is this type of routine will work, but is not sustainable for more than a few weeks.

However it's very dependent upon whether you are training at a submaximal level.

For instance, if you are on a super abbreviated routine doing 2 sets of triples at 80% of 1RM then fine.

If you are doing 5 sets to failure in any rep range per body part, hardly anyone will gain after a few weeks on a five day program.

Unless of course you have some assistance.

You may have a testosterone spurt at the moment, as your body quickly overtrains your libido will diminish significantly.
 

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so, would you reccomend i run this for 3 weeks, then switch over to a 3 day split for a month or 2, take a week off, then go back on it...would that be a good setup?

oh yeah heres what i do
4 exercises per day 4 sets per exercise 12 10 8 6-7 nearly my max on the 6-7 as i can barely get them off... so intense training
monday=chest
tuesday=legs
wednesday=back
thursday=shoulders
friday=arms (bi's/tri's)
oh yeah and i eat like a race horse
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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heh good for you.

I can say working out definitely helps me sleep better at night, usually i sleep 8+ hrs a nite....compared to before i worked out i was a major insomniac.

sex drive? well it's on and off for the most part, rather fluxiating
 

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I know the single bodypart per day routines are popular on here, and most of you are young fit lads who gain quite well on it.

I just think that after a month or so, what happens is people stall, decide to change exercises in a bid to supposedly 'shock' the body back into growth, and of course are back to a starting poundage.

The problem is, if you are anywhere near all out effort on your leg day, there is no way on earth you are recovered the next for your back. It's your whole system that has to recover not just the individual muscle.

Now if you are training submaximally on an abbreviated routine, sure you can train 5 days a week, that's what the former eastern block countries do for strength and power events.

I sometimes think the slightly lazy DJs end up more succesfull at gaining mass :eek:

He decides he's only going to train twice a week. He's only going to do deads, presses and rows and then he's going to sit in front of the box all night eating pepperoni pizza with extra cheese. Aerobics? fvck off.

He then decides once the increments on the bar gets less and less, he goes on a weeks holiday. When he comes back he doesn't want to over do things so he starts lifting again with 80% of his last max lift.

Two years later he's built like a brick sh1thouse and wonders what all the fuss was about.
 

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Originally posted by D'light
so, would you reccomend i run this for 3 weeks, then switch over to a 3 day split for a month or 2, take a week off, then go back on it...would that be a good setup?

oh yeah heres what i do
4 exercises per day 4 sets per exercise 12 10 8 6-7 nearly my max on the 6-7 as i can barely get them off... so intense training
monday=chest
tuesday=legs
wednesday=back
thursday=shoulders
friday=arms (bi's/tri's)
oh yeah and i eat like a race horse
It looks like you're setting yourself up for overtraining. Instead of working out 5 days in a row like that, make your training schedule M-W-F.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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heres a quck update, 2 weeks in ive went from 176.7 to 183.4 so its a little increase. i eat like a frickin moose though! im completely satisfied with this rate because i should hit the 195 i want by early may!
 

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oh yeah and i got trashed friday night, not soemthing i do but once every 2 months maybe tops...its ok im in college, and since then ive been able to sleep soundly
 

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That's good progress mate. Just be a bit careful if you run it till may, if your weight goes up but no strength gains it could well be all fat.

Take a break for a week beginning in April.
 
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