"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interesting responses from attractive women who claim why they hook up with ugly men.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If a woman is with a seemingly ugly or average man, it's as simple as this:

1.)She doesn't think he's ugly or average. He's her type for whatever reason.

2.)He isn't ugly or average. The same way girls can't tell sometimes what girls guys like, we can't always tell what girls like.

3.)She's deliberately settling and using him for money or something else.

I'm average looking, been told I'm "cute" and "adorable" by some women, but never "hot." Every woman that's ever shown interest in me found me attractive and every woman who didn't want anything to do with me found me unattractive.

The bottom line: If women don't think you look good or at least ok to them, unless they're gold-diggers you stand no chance.

This ugly/average guy banging 10s while the good looking guys don't is bs.
 

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Most of the so called normal guys who are with hot girls are a s s h o l e s. This is because woman like strong confident men.

That article is either written buy a woman ore a fag. It made me sick.

Yes it is very hard for a hot woman to get a men because they don`t get approached alot, yeah right. I am hearing woman words on this phrase.

The article also says that the players are playing games. Typical woman phrase.

Maybe askmen should be renamed to Ask-a-woman
 
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