"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interesting report about women who date online

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Check this out: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,295437,00.html

"Is it still a one-night stand if you have been chatting on the Internet? Well, a new study out of Houston claims women who are going to great lengths to screen possible suitors online are not as picky once they meet the person in person. The study shows one in three women who meet a guy they have chatted with online reported having sex on the first date. Three-quarters of those women said they didn't use protection."

That last line is pretty disturbing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nothing really mind opening.
 

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Magma said:
Interesting. However, I take anything that comes from Fox Noise with a grain of salt...
Gimme a break, there's nothing political about this article.
 

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speakeasy said:
Gimme a break, there's nothing political about this article.
Yeah, besides the article was just reporting on a study that was done at the University of Texas.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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