Interesting Proposition From Oneitis

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

FoxHound20

Don Juan

Jun 9, 2004

I think Slickster is dead on.

I'm not even gonna sweat it.. I'm going to date other girls, have a good time when i'm with her. Leave her wanting more.

It's easier said than done to be a complete prick and walk away from a GOOD FRIEND. She's not the type of girl to go hop on the first d1ck that comes along. Deep down inside she's my true friend and totally walking away and leaving her in the dust is the CHUMP thing to do.

We do all kinds of fun stuff together, and to totally toss away a good friend would be more of a loss in the long run.