DJT92
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 1, 2015
- Messages
- 15
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- Age
- 31
Hi guys, long time lurker here. First post, and I am excited to use this as an Avenue to work on myself and my game.
Instead of boring you all with some long story bull****, I'm going to lay it out point form. I am not asking for a specific response, just reply whatever comes to your mind fellow Juans!
-been seeing this girl for about 3 months, very easy going and low on the ****-test meter
-sex 3-5 times a week, she invites me over 90% of the time
-more than just FWB's, we hang out like a couple (no dates though)
-know each other very well, things have been going strong without a hitch (until recently)
-feels as though she's super into me (texts me all day, asks to hang out almost every night, ditches other plans to have me over)
-guy she used to live with is back in the picture, unsure if they were ever having sex or anything (highly unlikely)
-has invited me over late at night while he is there (just them two hanging out) and then me and her go to bed and have sex, so I'm getting the vibe there was nothing between the two but if there was in the past it is now squashed
-know for a fact she's not sleeping with anybody else
AND NOW:
-past few days she's been slightly distant
-would ignore my questions while on her phone today in the car (one thing I strongly dislike is lack of respect)
-we both start working opposite shifts in a week and a half (still enough time to hang out a couple times a week/booty call any night she asks... good or bad thing)
-I never chose to make a move to make it more serious as I feel that's not my job, my job is continuing to give her great sex and be a juan, she can decide for herself.
I feel like there's a MILLION things I have left out. But that's typical, I have included the barebones.
She is a good woman and I'd like to keep this going at the very least.
Ideas, thoughts?
EDIT: Might also be worth mentioning I am an attractive guy with a 9/10 body while she is slightly less attractive (doesn't bother me in the slightest, but can I use this to my advantage?)
Instead of boring you all with some long story bull****, I'm going to lay it out point form. I am not asking for a specific response, just reply whatever comes to your mind fellow Juans!
-been seeing this girl for about 3 months, very easy going and low on the ****-test meter
-sex 3-5 times a week, she invites me over 90% of the time
-more than just FWB's, we hang out like a couple (no dates though)
-know each other very well, things have been going strong without a hitch (until recently)
-feels as though she's super into me (texts me all day, asks to hang out almost every night, ditches other plans to have me over)
-guy she used to live with is back in the picture, unsure if they were ever having sex or anything (highly unlikely)
-has invited me over late at night while he is there (just them two hanging out) and then me and her go to bed and have sex, so I'm getting the vibe there was nothing between the two but if there was in the past it is now squashed
-know for a fact she's not sleeping with anybody else
AND NOW:
-past few days she's been slightly distant
-would ignore my questions while on her phone today in the car (one thing I strongly dislike is lack of respect)
-we both start working opposite shifts in a week and a half (still enough time to hang out a couple times a week/booty call any night she asks... good or bad thing)
-I never chose to make a move to make it more serious as I feel that's not my job, my job is continuing to give her great sex and be a juan, she can decide for herself.
I feel like there's a MILLION things I have left out. But that's typical, I have included the barebones.
She is a good woman and I'd like to keep this going at the very least.
Ideas, thoughts?
EDIT: Might also be worth mentioning I am an attractive guy with a 9/10 body while she is slightly less attractive (doesn't bother me in the slightest, but can I use this to my advantage?)