interesting observation on procrastination

[paraguayandj]

I decided to stop masturbating so much to get more confidence and I found something interesting. Procrastination!
For some reason everytime I was bored and had nothing to do more than watch porn, I said to myself
"No, im not gonna do it now, I'll do it later"
I went like that for a while and then I realized
I quit masturbating!
Now, I want to know if procrastination can actually help in other aspects. What do you guys think?

 

[flexion_]

You get confidence by doing things not by stopping doing things... ie.. you aren't addressing the problem with your solution.

 

[Luveno]

I always find that I end up whacking it when I'm bored and have nothing to do. The main goal of the DJ is to be always improving and never having wasted time. So I guess the real DJ wouldn't whack off because he isn't bored enough.

 

[platinumike]

ya. I find not whacking raises your confidence.

 

[Virtú]

It's hard to not be bored when you're a homebody couch-potato loser.

Boredom and dissatisfaction are such constant companions that you genuinely don't believe that anything could be exciting or pleasurable.

However, I don't believe that such a person makes themself live that kind of life; IMO, they end up there due to massive character flaws. Life just doesn't stimulate them as much, if at all, as it does a normal person.

Good luck quitting masturbation, it's so addictive that they should let you into the Betty Ford Clinic for it. I've been trying to quit for over six months now, and have yet to last longer than a week.

 

[Maniax]

Originally posted by flexion_
You get confidence by doing things not by stopping doing things... ie.. you aren't addressing the problem with your solution.

Don't listen to him. If you use your drive to do good things, and your laziness to stop you from doing detrimental things (like masturbating), you're way ahead of this guy, who is just using half the equation.