"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interesting Night

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I was out the other night with a few women at a birthday party, and an interesting thing happened. (Unfortunately no interesting sex though)
We go to this restaurant and this one girl mentions how I was at her house the other day and she walks into her room in a robe from the shower (She lives with a roomate) and supposedly didn't know I was there. So she comes in and after 2 minutes of being in her room her Pu$$y is hanging out, Which of course I checked out for a couple minutes and then had to make a comment on how being totally shaved is good. She mentions to a couple of her friends about this. Now she was not trying to be modest at all when this happened in her room, and even got dressed there doing the chick clothes under clothe thing (which doesn't work well for robes). But I am curious as to why she felt the need to tell the story to her friends, who of course later tried to pump me for every little detail and then had to try and degrade her for doing it. Any thoughts as to what these girls were thinking and why they did what they all did? Just wondering howI can take advantage of the situation, on all sides.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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true romance

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you are working backward..here we try to get to the *****, you are already there and now you asking how to proceed after?

If she has her ***** hanging out in her room, you should make a move right there..flirt, dry her up with your tongue..etc
this is the situation you shlould taking advantage
 

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I forgot to clarify, she has a kid who was in the other room who tends to just walk in, so sex right there was out of the question, otherwise I definately would have told her to "Come over here a sec" while I was on her bed. We did make out for a bit, but the wholde kid thing ruins it for her house. I am going to try and get her over to my house soon, when I got the time. I would say theres about a 98% chance tha if we were alone We'd be having sex. What I don't understand is why she said anything to her friends and why her friends were so interested and then cut her down. I know theres an angle to be played and I am interested in 1 of the 2 friends. The other one is fat and obsesses about me and It's like no way. I won't even let her give me a BJ even though she's directly ofered, cause I figure F'ing around with her will lower my value. But her other friend is cute and doesn't have a kid, so I want to play it out the right way.
 
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