"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interesting-Met a girl in online game

Centaurion

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Originally posted by The_Mole
... and she is also my first gf thats why i'm staying with her, she is in love with me also...
you met her on an online game.
she lives 50 miles away.

you shouldnt be talking about gf/bf an love.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why shouldn't he? You and I have never met and you live halfway around the world but I'm in love with you.

Let the magic into your heart.



<3 Soma
 

Porky

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Originally posted by Soma
Several times she, myself, and her friends had some good times if you know what I mean. And I'm sure you do.
like Halo tournaments?
 
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