"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Interesting Men's Health Article May Explain Why Big Butt Women Are Superficial

Frank2500

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I recently subscribed to Men's Health Magazine and in this month's issue, (page 44, with Derek Jeter on the cover) an article stated that athletic/slimmer women are less superficial than their curvaceous counterparts because curvaceous women have more estrogen than slimmer women and as a result, their genes are programmed to seek out prospective mates who they think could help produce "stronger babies." I laughed out loud like crazy while reading it because it made me recall my very skinny days before I began lifting weights and would be making moves on all these super big booty women who tended to come up with any excuse possible to say "no" to me. And now all of a sudden, those same kinds of women who under normal circumstances wouldn't give me the time of day seem to be paying attention to and noticing me. People are shamefully shallow and superficial but hey, what can we do? That's life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've gotta read that article. I'm curious whether it'll point out any reasons why I seem to only go after athletic women and the women with the double-wide kadunk-kadunks.
 

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Re:

The article only gave it from the perspective of women who supposedly fit that description.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Frank2500 said:
The article only gave it from the perspective of women who supposedly fit that description.
Well that sucks. It still sounds like an interesting read though.
 
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