"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Interesting link about physical attraction

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AgonyUncle said:
And above all else, stop giving a crap what women think.
Let’s take a look at this seemingly mantra of the pick up community. If one’s purpose here is to attract women and if you consider that in order for a woman to fall for you that it requires her to think highly of you. But wait you can’t give a crap what she thinks about you. Hmmmm somehow this just doesn’t make sense.

Women are always friendly towards me because I do care about what they think, what their concerns are, what turns them on, what they don’t like…. How can you have a relationship with a women if you don’t give a crap about what she thinks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Potato what you're saying doesn't make sense. Theres a limit to attractiveness you know! There are good looking men everywhere I'm sure...

I reckon your confidence is mainly the reason women are attracted to you because you probably radiate it and you're not short of confidence - which is a good thing! You're obviously good with the ladies but it can't all be down to physical attraction.
 

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potato said:
See and that is why you aren’t getting women. Bar none, the most important thing that determines attractiveness is ones genes. I’m sure you are up on genetics. Every thing that you are is determined by your genes, your height, the color of your eyes, if and when you go bald, the shape of your nose, the straightness of your teeth, your intelligence, even your basic personality. They are all determined shortly after your father’s sperm inters your mothers egg and their collective DNA combines to make your DNA.

No two people have exactly the same genetic makeup, except for maternal twins. These genetic differences lead to certain advantages to some over others. It is so obvious I don’t know why so many people object to it. Some people run faster than others, some sing better than others, some do mathematics better than others, some are better looking that others. Sure there are things that one can do to improve one’s selves but it is always within the confines of one’s genetic makeup.


After watching Mystery and his little gang of gay boys on TV trying to act like ladies men and laughing my a$$ off, I’ve thought about making a public presentation of the silliness of it. Maybe when I have more time.

I’m sure you could take David DeAngelo, Mystery, and all the others and not find one who can attract more women than I can. You know they learned their trade by watching men. hehe I got good with women by hanging out with women. And who’s your heros? The guys who watch guys? You must realize that they are playing more to your shortcomings than to a desire to really teach you about women. What are they really teaching you? To pick up girls at bars who are drinking and hoping to get picked up.
While you are working your little con game on one girl, I’m walking by lighting up the imaginations of dozens.
Oh mate you're so thick. Read your first sentence.....did i not tell you that I AM getting women. Duh!

Genetics made me tall, skinny, shy and kinda awkward looking.

Knowledge and dedication made me tall, lean and athletic, and good looking. NO BS, my best mate has had modelling contracts offered to him and he's a 20 yr old virgin....genetics really doesn't mean that much.

Oh and you still didn't post a pic....I still call BS. bartenders don't refuse money from no-one, I know this cos I worked as one, as did a lot of my mates and its just not allowed - busted! Also, you wouldn't feel the need to argue if you were for real.
 
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