interesting how people REALLY meet....

[Delta]

so most of us understand that to a certain degree, this dj stuff is hope inducing myth.... here's an interesting survey that shows how people generally meet:

http://www.menshealth.com/cda/artic...item=ef896391cfd5b010VgnVCM200000cee793cd____

so don't feel too bad if success isn't jumping at you through walls....

delta

 

[blinkwatt]

so don't feel too bad if success isn't jumping at you through walls....

I beleive that's true for the most part. When I have intentions of meeting women ie clubs,parties,most of them are sluts. But! The quality women that I valued I met by chances;

~One hit me in the face on a rollercoaster ride!

~Met one at the gym at 1AM!

~Customer that comes to my job!

 

[Delta]

haha...

wish my random encounters were so fruitful.

gosh... i really wouldn't mind a few sluts every now and again.

but am i right that most of these "sluts" are skanks too... as in fugly?

cuz if there are a lot of super hot sluts to be scored somewhere, in my mind, that's a pretty good thing! a man can get by on a steady diet of hot sluts until he can find the right girl... in my mind, that's the recommended way to lead a single life... sated by a steady stream of meaningless sluts so that when a good one shows up, you're totally not desperate and ready to go.

delta

 

[Rebound Material]

I beleive that's true for the most part. When I have intentions of meeting women ie clubs,parties,most of them are sluts. But! The quality women that I valued I met by chances!

You know what, this is true. I always thought that there was no way some girl you gamed at the club or bar could have been that great of quality...I mean first of all you met her where supposed SINGLES are meant to meet aka desperate people. The girls I found to be LTR status were always in my classes or through good friends of mine.

 

[Rata Blanca]

Thats cause most of the people suck at meeting new people.
When was the last time you talked with a stranger?
While waiting at the bank line, in a grocery store?
When was the last time you were laughing with a complete stranger??
Seriously all it takes is: smile + "hi"

 

[DJ_in_making]

See.. that's the thing.

People keep 'limiting' themselves. By relying on your friends to introduce you to new people you are "limiting" yourself to the people your friends know. Friends just 'happen'. I don't know about too many of you guys but since I'm in school most of my friends I met through classes, frat/sorority mixers, clubs & organizations, other friends, and just randomly talking to others...

 

[DJ_in_making]

I mean first of all you met her where supposed SINGLES are meant to meet aka desperate people.

This statement is SUCH B.S..... I don't know about the clubs you've been to, but the ones I been to the girls are hot and far from desperate. Believe it or not, many girls with boyfriends still go CLUBBING, they are in their attention ***** stage in life. Hell, some people just like to party. The "desperate" people are stuck at home watching t.v. and doing nothing...

 

[Rebound Material]

This statement is SUCH B.S..... I don't know about the clubs you've been to, but the ones I been to the girls are hot and far from desperate. Believe it or not, many girls with boyfriends still go CLUBBING, they are in their attention ***** stage in life. Hell, some people just like to party. The "desperate" people are stuck at home watching t.v. and doing nothing...

Ok, so I was being extremely general with that statemet. Yes, girls with BF's still go clubbing and yes ppl do wanna have fun. But Im talking about the single breezies out there that are just straight up easy and would put out in a second. I don't consider that 'good quality' what so ever.

 

[Delta]

right,

statistics would give you the end result of the average population... as in "average frustrated chump"....

still - i wonder how many guys afc or not actually end up with the woman of their dreams through just bull headed "working it" as opposed to something more prosaic like friends and family.

hell, i wonder how many guys afc or not actually endup with the woman of their dreams... period!

and what is the frightening number of people that have to admit or deny to themselves in their deepest heart of hearts that they settled. that when the music stopped, they just jumped into the chair that was there.

delta

 

[everywomanshero]

AFCs are unlikely to become PUAs, but I do know that AFCs often end up living with vaugely attractive women (7.5+). Now, sometimes these guys are either being played for suckers like she was prego by another guy and scared or being alone, just got out of a bad ordeal with an "abusive man" & wanting help with kids, or sometimes just wants to exploit the (soon to be) poor boy. Other times the girls are just really nice and want to do that whole marriage & kids thing.

Nontheless, tons of AFC-like men do end up with relatively attractive-looking women. The problem is the men are so desperate that they often respond to *any* woman who is even *remotely* attractive and interested, even if she's been divorced twice and has three kids by two-different guys. They will move her in within a week if she's willing. As Frued might say, sometimes a lay is just a lay. No when to say when,bros.

It's worth the time to get good enough at attracting women to select one you really *belong* with rather than ending up 35, divorced 3 times, spending 900$ a month in child support, and desperately hoping you can find just *one more* attractive woman desperate enough to need to use some AFC to feed her kids. OTOH, I think RAFCs need to realize they will have to spend some time with less than perfect women in order to hone their skills. The thing is not to go having babies and faling in love with some woman who came out of a trailor park