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Interesting female feedback on my clothing style

Shivastorm_88

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If anyone remember, I had posted a thread asking what I could do to work on my appearance, and one of the thing that came back often was to dress nicer. So I started buying nicer clothes (I was due anyways my shirts were all getting pretty old). I got a few nice shirts and long-sleeve shirts as well. At work I got a comment from a co-worker (she's 4-5 years older than me), and she pretty much said:

"That's a really nice shirt you're wearing. It's about time you stopped wearing t-shirts with images, at your age it's pretty childish and not to your advantage. These kinds of shirts (my long-sleeve shirt) make you look more mature and much more attractive."

Always interesting to hear comments like that. And it's not like it was a fancy 100$ long-sleeve shirt, it cost me 20$. I guess dressing nice does make quite a difference. Thought I'd share.
 

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I dress nicely at work. Have to. Not coates and ties, just a button down shirt and slacks mostly. Like more of the earth tones as opposed to louder colors. Gals in the office like it, wife as well.

When not at work, it's usually jeans and a t shirt or sweatshirt type stuff.

But listen to this. My wife had been making some comments that my jeans were too baggy in the butt. We're not talking jeanz from da hood mind you. Anyway, we go out together to get some jeans for me last weekend. I end up getting some jeans that are the same size and lenght but that have a closer fit, especially in the butt. Now she's saying that my rear end looks really good now.

Women notice this stuff more than we know. They look at azzes as much as we do as guys.

No skinny jeans jokes needed. I didnt go there.
 

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Shivastorm_88 said:
If anyone remember, I had posted a thread asking what I could do to work on my appearance, and one of the thing that came back often was to dress nicer. So I started buying nicer clothes (I was due anyways my shirts were all getting pretty old). I got a few nice shirts and long-sleeve shirts as well. At work I got a comment from a co-worker (she's 4-5 years older than me), and she pretty much said:

"That's a really nice shirt you're wearing. It's about time you stopped wearing t-shirts with images, at your age it's pretty childish and not to your advantage. These kinds of shirts (my long-sleeve shirt) make you look more mature and much more attractive."

Always interesting to hear comments like that. And it's not like it was a fancy 100$ long-sleeve shirt, it cost me 20$. I guess dressing nice does make quite a difference. Thought I'd share.

You can get $100 shirts for like 30 dollars or even less. Go to a fancy department store or an outlet that's near you. Google them. Don't know who's in your area.

Say it's Sak's 5th ave or whatever. Go to the clearence section and look on the racks. Usually that stuff is like 60 to 70% off. The coupon will make it even more off.

To get the current coupon: Print up coupons after searching on Google for the most recent one for the store or stores you want to buy stuff in obviouslywith the current date for that department store (so it's not expired) and bring it or ask another customer or hottie at the counter, shopping etc if they have a better coupon than the one you have (you can strike up a mini conversation in the meantime).

If they are STILL too expensive. You can always Google a clearence outlet for whatever department store and they will take the coupons there. You really have to search in clearence outlets as tons of stuff is on racks but you CAN and WILL get some INSANELY low prices on some originally priced expensive clothing. Like $150 shirts for $9 or $12 jeans, pants etc. You'll wind up going berserk in those places and won't shop anywhere else after you find you can get great stuff for dirt cheap.

I see it ALL THE TIME. In the dept store I work in. Hardly ANYONE pays full price. TONS of people come in for the clearence. It's all a mind game that some stores are only for the rich people.

Anyone paying FULL price usually returns to try and get a coupon etc. MOST people wait. There are CONSTANT sales going on. Just hit up those clearence racks and bring coupons. I'm telling you you'll be shocked.
 
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