"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SO, I went to a uniqlo store last week. I was walking in the store when I saw a salesgirl and asked her to play catch with me :D, which got her laughing. Fast forward to this Sunday, I went to the same store to look around, and she approached me and said she feels like she sees me in the store everyday. Which was surprising because I don't remember doing anything flashy.

I've also grown accustomed to high-fiving girls's to get in the zone, or sometimes a fist bumps.

But my number one concern is that, I still have AA and I can't even approach girls who make extended I contact with me. It sucks lol. Oh, and I'm no lnger nervous when i talk to girl.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey well you're doing something right. This girl recognizes you and approached you. She obviously thinks of you in a positive manner.


As for not being able to approach girls that you have long eye contact with, is it because you are afraid of the girl? Or are you afraid of what the girl thinks about you?
 
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BigSmooth said:
As for not being able to approach girls that you have long eye contact with, is it because you are afraid of the girl? Or are you afraid of what the girl thinks about you?
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I'm not afraid of girls, but maybe I'm afraid of what they think of me..... If so, then I have a lot to work on xD
 
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