"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interesting article on men who have deep voice

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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War Against Betaism

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Getting a deeper voice is the major thing I'm working on right now with my game. One of my friends is an AFC, but no homo, his voice is sexy. It's deep and very resonant.
 

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Yes I to have been trying to improve this but I feel so akward when I speak louder, I dont want people around me to hear what im saying I only want the set im opening to hear, Why? I dont know.
 

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domino said:
Yes I to have been trying to improve this but I feel so akward when I speak louder, I dont want people around me to hear what im saying I only want the set im opening to hear, Why? I dont know.
Why are you trying to speak louder? I have a natural deep voice so I don't have to work on it, but it gets a lot deeper when I talk slowly. In fact I think the louder you talk the weaker your voice gets unless you're shouting.

You might feel uncomfortable because of the "bass" coming from your voice. I used to be really uncomfortable with it, until I found out girls liked it. :p You'll get used to it.
 
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