"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Interesting article on men who have deep voice
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Getting a deeper voice is the major thing I'm working on right now with my game. One of my friends is an AFC, but no homo, his voice is sexy. It's deep and very resonant.
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Why are you trying to speak louder? I have a natural deep voice so I don't have to work on it, but it gets a lot deeper when I talk slowly. In fact I think the louder you talk the weaker your voice gets unless you're shouting.domino said:
You might feel uncomfortable because of the "bass" coming from your voice. I used to be really uncomfortable with it, until I found out girls liked it.
You'll get used to it.