"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interesting article on men who have deep voice

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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War Against Betaism

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Getting a deeper voice is the major thing I'm working on right now with my game. One of my friends is an AFC, but no homo, his voice is sexy. It's deep and very resonant.
 

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Yes I to have been trying to improve this but I feel so akward when I speak louder, I dont want people around me to hear what im saying I only want the set im opening to hear, Why? I dont know.
 

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domino said:
Yes I to have been trying to improve this but I feel so akward when I speak louder, I dont want people around me to hear what im saying I only want the set im opening to hear, Why? I dont know.
Why are you trying to speak louder? I have a natural deep voice so I don't have to work on it, but it gets a lot deeper when I talk slowly. In fact I think the louder you talk the weaker your voice gets unless you're shouting.

You might feel uncomfortable because of the "bass" coming from your voice. I used to be really uncomfortable with it, until I found out girls liked it. :p You'll get used to it.
 
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