"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Interesting article about "nice guys"
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is an excellent article that really puts the "nice guy" in perspective.
So many guys seem to think being a "nice guy" is the same as being charismatic, friendly, complimentary, and believe you have to go to the opposite end of the scale to attract women, but this article does a great job explaining the difference.
So many guys seem to think being a "nice guy" is the same as being charismatic, friendly, complimentary, and believe you have to go to the opposite end of the scale to attract women, but this article does a great job explaining the difference.
Good description of the Nice Guy. Complete BS that women are hurt when they realize he was their friend just to get into their pants. They smell it on the nice guys and use it as validation. Women get something out of it too.
Let's stop thinking that they're these pretty little snow flakes!
Let's stop thinking that they're these pretty little snow flakes!