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[Hendrix]

So I'm visiting my dad for the summer and meet some new friends at a sports day camp. I met some friends who have known these 2 hotties for a while who have been attending these tennis lessons. So me mr new comer gets invited by this girl I find attractive to come to her sweet 16 birthday party. She's older than me! She smiles and laughs with me off and on, she might like me? So I attend her little birthday party and go swimming with her, her friends. and my guy friends. Not much happens except me asking her if she wants to see my fish on my swimtrunks swim... So we watch 2 movies and shes laying next to me the entire show frequently changing positions. I want to hold her hand but her little sister is there and we havent really established we like each other...i dunno. Is there any way to find out shes intrested? I invited her out on the lake and her friend told me she can't go and we arranged for friday maybe...come on djs this isnt tough maybe im just being too shy and funny when i should just get after it and initiate the kino to find out if she wants it or not? If she doesnt I'll know, right?

 

[immrtlwun]

If she wasn't interested, she probably wouldn't have spent the whole movie laying next to you, so I think you're in. Just remember, you only have three meetings to establish the fact that you're interested in her before she puts you in the friends category. So don't be too hesitant.

p.s.- I like the comment about asking if she wants to see the fish on your trunks swim. Very funny and shows confidence.

 

[Jerky Boi]

There's no established number of days that it takes for a girl to put you in a friend's category. You always have to remember, circumstances are different for everyone.

If she smiles while you're around, there was some light kino, good eye contact, and if she layed next to you the whole entire time, and was a little bit nervous, she's definitely interested in you. Don't ever rush into kino if you don't think it's the right time. If you're worried because you don't know if you should have held her hand or not, don't worry about it, just look for it the next time.

Next time you ask her out, make sure it's just you and her though. This will show that you have some interest in her as more than a friend. Hang out with her around her friends all the time, and you'll just become whatever they are And I don't think you want that. It was only the first time you hung out with her, so don't sweat it if she's into you or not. She should be the one worrying about that

But from me to you, she's definitely into you. ALWAYS assume that they're into you until they tell you otherwise man.<---not exactly sure who said that but it's completely true.

 

[Hendrix]

You guys are the best. I think it was robert plant of led zeppelin who said by taking your time youll be mine. Next time I'll definately act on it and be more aggressive because I know she digs me. My buddy has known her a little longer than me and I think hes a little bit sweet on her. I might just have to put him in his place if he decides he wants to tickle her again...lol Do you guys think I should make out with her this soon or maybe do some easy kino and ask her out first?

 

[Jerky Boi]

Whatever comes first man. I never see anything wrong with kissing before you actually go out. It just depends on what kind of a girl she is and where exactly she stands on her morals about the making out thing. You just kinda have to go with it and see where it goes. Kino is always good. If the mood is right, together or not, go for it. YOU will know.