"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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steves2kool

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There is this girl in my math class.....We talk and when we do I look into her eyes and get close to her....she doesnt back away or anything...I not sure how to test to see if shes interested she seems to be...but am not sure...any sujections?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Plec07

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Charm&Style said:
2 in the pink one in the stink...if she like it you stay
Not sure what that's sposed to mean lol, but try some kino and C+F. See how she reacts to them, if she responds back with kino then your in the green (not saying she's immediatly ready to go out with you, just has interest in you), if not maybe she just simply isn't ready for it so try to make her laugh about anything and everything. After all not many people can make a fake laugh sound real:)
 

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Get number, ask out, etc. No use pondering over it. Made a thread on kissing once that has some stuff you might be interested in. Just search for threads started by me, should'nt be a whole page.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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