"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I just wanted to know if it was cool to talk to multiple girls in the same school, would that cause problems. There is this 1 girl i really want to go for but i don't want to just focus on 1 girl, cause i heard that was bad. Im interested in atleast 10 girls there. Also when introducing myself, is saying hi too plain. Should i make an observation off of something she has or is wearing and ask about it. Might that be better??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There is absolutely nothing wrong with talking and meeting multiple women.
 
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Comeback kid said:
I just wanted to know if it was cool to talk to multiple girls in the same school, would that cause problems. There is this 1 girl i really want to go for but i don't want to just focus on 1 girl, cause i heard that was bad. Im interested in atleast 10 girls there. Also when introducing myself, is saying hi too plain. Should i make an observation off of something she has or is wearing and ask about it. Might that be better??
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absolutly cool to talk to multiple girls... makes you look cooler than guys who got no balls to approach.....


if you find hi too plain you can always comment about them.. either compliment them or tease them...... you can do that even after you say hi
 
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It's cool, until they all find out about each other. From my experience, HS girls are a lot different. Like out in the real world, there's no problem with it. But everytime I've been hitting up multipe girls there's always some crazy ***** who finds out then tries and starts drama and ****. Or maybe it's just the girls I've been trying to get with.. but it's happened almost everytime. I mostly game chicks from other schools, less chance of getting 'caught'. Not that I'm ashamed of dating multiple girls at once, just trying to stay drama free. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Listen to Scars, he is correct with what he states.
You cannot game girls who know each other, you would be surprised how fast information can travel and if they find you are stating the same thing to each and every one of them (for example), they will catch onto your game, and you will loose all of them.

Remember your limit on what you can handle (Girls are time consuming unfortunately) and make sure they cannot meet each other.

I know one guy who used the same lines on 3 girls at the same school, all of them ended up falling head over heals for him... till all 3 of them met together one day, and found out he used the same lines on all of them. I don't think you want to know what happened. :)

Just a caution. I am not stating to NOT talk with multiple girls, but just be careful about who you talk to and what you say to each of them. Talking to a wide variety of girls will make you have the power to choose, and you won't look so desperate.
 
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Thats fine if you like more then one girl..it keeps your options open.

As far as the conversation, if your around her and you dont know what to say comment on something thats going on. Example if your in class talking and in the room its very noisy make a little joke or comment. stuff like that.
 
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