Interested in how you guys screen women

[skinnyguy]

With the internet, our choices of women have proliferated, but at the same time, their sense of entitlement has gone up the roof.

As members of SOS, we post about AW's, BPD's, gold diggers, flakes, etc. It seems that many of the women date/text do not meet our standards. I like the discussion we've been having about screening them first before dating them.

How do you guys screen, and what do you look for? What are some of your deal breakers?

For me, I have a one strike rule with flaking, and have realized that a woman who expects you to take her to dinner on the first date is nothing but trouble. The women who have been most interested in me in the past have been the ones I have fvcked after spending no money on them.

 

[n00bPimp]

At this point if they let me be around them thats enough for me to chase them.
JK

I allow girls to flake 3 times tops. I've had quite a few that i ended up banging after flaking on me twice. You just have to start all over again after every flake and not care about why they flaked, women love playing games because society has made them be like that. Not their fault so dont take it personal.

I dont really care what her preference for a first date is. We always end up going where i want to go, which is coffee, juice bar, or bar. The power of influencing is awesome!

Most girls have different personality flaws but i look past that and impose my frame so that in the end I'm the one in control.

After all is said and done, what i look for is that they are hot, dont have any std's, and care about a healthy lifestyle.

 

[kraytkiller]

3 strike rule with flaking

If I catch you lying and you don't come clean about it when I hint about it, next

If I catch you lying about something serious, usually next, or atleast no longer considered as LTR material

If they try to control me I usually put them in their place, if they continue to try to be controlling, next

These are my biggest pet peeves I can think of atm.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I guess the main thing for me is that a girl have some hobbies and interests that aren't screwing, spending money & substance abuse

Women that have nothing to do have a tendency to cheat, spend, nag, bother.. Bored women just sit around thinking of ways they can take advantage of their puussy pass.

 

[gravityeyelids]

At this point i feel like i've gained almost an intuition for detecting this. Probably similar to how women screen men without even blatantly asking themselves these questions. You just know. It can take months to pick out the hidden weaknesses and insecurities in the higher quality women..but with the slvts or low quality ones, it can manifest within MINUTES of you meeting them. You can tell VERY quickly in some circumstances underlying issues that might make them poor choices for a romantic and sexual partner.

Any experienced poker players here? It's kind of like that intuition. When starting out you need to ask yourself questions like:
1) What position do i have at the table?
2) What is this person's betting habits?
3) How big are the blinds relative to my stack?
4) Is the table playing looser or more conservative?

When you start out, you need to stop and consciously ask yourself these questions. But as you play thousands of hands, you "calibrate" easily and aren't even aware you're analyzing all this information. You just "intuitively" know what the right course of action is, even though you're analyzing dozens and dozens of bits of information and making decisions based on that.

When i'm with a girl, i subconsciously pay attention to things like:
1) Is she self-conscious?
2) How does she discuss her ex-boyfriends?
3) Does she have normal social skills and responses?
4) Does she know how to groom herself well/workout/dress well,etc?
5) Does she rely on alcohol/drugs to be comfortable with herself?
6) After knowing her a few weeks, does she demonstrate signs of neediness/insecurity?

I find that if you're a high-value, discerning guy, these types of questions come naturally, especially after being with a large number of women and finding out who they truly are. Little details can tell you worlds about her true quality and personality, especially when taking into account girls will always hide their weaknesses and try to present their best side to you (at least until they've got you by the balls).

 

[skinnyguy]

I guess the main thing for me is that a girl have some hobbies and interests that aren't screwing, spending money & substance abuse

Women that have nothing to do have a tendency to cheat, spend, nag, bother.. Bored women just sit around thinking of ways they can take advantage of their puussy pass.

Good post- I never really thought of it that way. Its true the best women are the ones who have genuine interests and hobbies.

 

[JohnChops]

fck screening. nail them all.