Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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Ok guys I believe we should consider clear facts to decide wheter a girl is interested in us or not, I cant tell the exact numer but I strongly believe I dealth with at least 100 women so I feel sure to create a rough draft.
I strongly believe as many other guys in here that an interested girl will make her intention and interest crystal clear to you, no drama or sh1t tests nor any behaviour which would confuse you or worse p1ss you off.
1)she encourage communication with you by giving her share to the volume of the conversation, sharing details about her life AND ASKING about yours.
She does the same effort you do in keeping the conversation fluent.
2)She establish contacts with you, she calls you as much as you call her, she pick up the phone when you and return all your messages when you write.
She doesnt "forget" or "is busy" or "tough it wasnt urgent"
3)Her body language is open toward you, eye contact is common so and the space between you is closer than usual, physical contact from you doesnt make her uncomfortable nor force her to increase the distance, she touchs you as well, not necessarily in an erotic way but still contact exists.
4)She compliments you or encourage you, she may tease you a little but never lack respect or put you down neither when its only the two of you, let alone in fron of other people.
5)She is fine for the two of you to deal alone with no other friend involved, she doesnt want to bring other people when you meet, either female friends which would distract you or males which could confuse or challenge you.
6)Planning dates is bilater, she puts the same effort you do in making it happen wheter is meeting half way or fix the reciprocal schedule, if she is genuinely busy she will counteroffer, take as sign her effort to meet you.
7)She will avoid any direct attention from males which could confuse or p1ss you off, she will not tell lines as "he is just a friend" or "we only talk", even the dumbest women knows that guys deal with her for only one purpose.
8)Intimacy and sex are not postponed or negotiated, no mind fvck or manipulation to get something out of you, an interested girl likes you as a person and respect you as a man, being a man a sexual being.
9)She shows her emotions, strongly or weakly is up to the person but she will not tell you she doesnt care or laught about it, jealousy will be show either directly or undirectly.
10)As a general rule check her work to get close to you and make you happy, interested girls never disappear, look bored with you or create drama for no reason..your gut knows it and you should listen at him.
11)Sexually they are forgiving of your possible lacks and would rather work to fix them rather than drop you, they could even pretend all is good to avoid you being hurt.
Bored uniterested girls could have sex with you if nothing better is around for long yet would not put any patience if something doesnt go too well.
12)They try to make you happy not p1ss you off or challenge you.
13)If you are socially uncompetant or shy, they would push you, hinting what you have to do undirectly first and directly if it needs, they want you so they will be active part in making it happen.
14)In the end an interested girl is not that different from an interest guy, desire and will to work for it are shared.
15)Dont confuse genuinely interested girls with girls leading you on looking for an ego boost or confirm their value after you went ghost on them, use this list as guidelines if it needs and consider sex and showing feelings as benchmarks, its not sex untill you put it inside (promises or random touches dont count) and are not feelings if behaviours dont match words (if she says that she misses you but doesnt have the time to meet its bvllsh1t).
Behaviour has to match words.
I strongly believe as many other guys in here that an interested girl will make her intention and interest crystal clear to you, no drama or sh1t tests nor any behaviour which would confuse you or worse p1ss you off.
1)she encourage communication with you by giving her share to the volume of the conversation, sharing details about her life AND ASKING about yours.
She does the same effort you do in keeping the conversation fluent.
2)She establish contacts with you, she calls you as much as you call her, she pick up the phone when you and return all your messages when you write.
She doesnt "forget" or "is busy" or "tough it wasnt urgent"
3)Her body language is open toward you, eye contact is common so and the space between you is closer than usual, physical contact from you doesnt make her uncomfortable nor force her to increase the distance, she touchs you as well, not necessarily in an erotic way but still contact exists.
4)She compliments you or encourage you, she may tease you a little but never lack respect or put you down neither when its only the two of you, let alone in fron of other people.
5)She is fine for the two of you to deal alone with no other friend involved, she doesnt want to bring other people when you meet, either female friends which would distract you or males which could confuse or challenge you.
6)Planning dates is bilater, she puts the same effort you do in making it happen wheter is meeting half way or fix the reciprocal schedule, if she is genuinely busy she will counteroffer, take as sign her effort to meet you.
7)She will avoid any direct attention from males which could confuse or p1ss you off, she will not tell lines as "he is just a friend" or "we only talk", even the dumbest women knows that guys deal with her for only one purpose.
8)Intimacy and sex are not postponed or negotiated, no mind fvck or manipulation to get something out of you, an interested girl likes you as a person and respect you as a man, being a man a sexual being.
9)She shows her emotions, strongly or weakly is up to the person but she will not tell you she doesnt care or laught about it, jealousy will be show either directly or undirectly.
10)As a general rule check her work to get close to you and make you happy, interested girls never disappear, look bored with you or create drama for no reason..your gut knows it and you should listen at him.
11)Sexually they are forgiving of your possible lacks and would rather work to fix them rather than drop you, they could even pretend all is good to avoid you being hurt.
Bored uniterested girls could have sex with you if nothing better is around for long yet would not put any patience if something doesnt go too well.
12)They try to make you happy not p1ss you off or challenge you.
13)If you are socially uncompetant or shy, they would push you, hinting what you have to do undirectly first and directly if it needs, they want you so they will be active part in making it happen.
14)In the end an interested girl is not that different from an interest guy, desire and will to work for it are shared.
15)Dont confuse genuinely interested girls with girls leading you on looking for an ego boost or confirm their value after you went ghost on them, use this list as guidelines if it needs and consider sex and showing feelings as benchmarks, its not sex untill you put it inside (promises or random touches dont count) and are not feelings if behaviours dont match words (if she says that she misses you but doesnt have the time to meet its bvllsh1t).
Behaviour has to match words.