"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interested girl.. comes along with agressive ''(ex)boyfriend'' new adventure...

TheGambino

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I met this girl like 8-10 months ago, number closed, texted with her back and forth, tease and sexual at one point and we agreed to meet up. I had to cancel due work the first time and the second time we were suposed to meet up in a bar she was not sounding entusiastic enough on the phone. My interest level wasnt so high also that time so I cancelled that one too.

Anyway I moved away from the village and our contact faded, I found out she has a Turkish bf (i know him well, we dont get along due multiple reasons) know so I ripped her number and forgot about her.

Today I went back to the village to see some friends, I was at a bar and she came in randomly with her friend to buy cigarettes. She saw me and came over to give me 3 kisses and she sat down next to me, I immediatley gamed her. Kino, teased, made fun of her, we played some darts, it was a great hour, enjoyed. I finally asked her about her boyfriend, the turkish dude. She said its over between us, hes too jealous, trying to controll my life. I cant go out with friends, I have to ask permission and blabla so were done. She even asks me '' are you like that ?'' Anyway I know she is still interested in me, her body language and answers and questions were more then clear. I told her come over to my city we could hang out. She said ye sure! what are we going to do blablalba.. I left the bar and 30mins later she starts texting me again..

Anyway its my luck im stuck up in a situation like this. I know her boyfriend (she says its over but facebook says ''in a relationship'' still) and he was checking upon us from another bar next to the one we were sitting in. I know Turkish guys around here own their girls even though shes 19(hes 20). They think theyre married with them and dominate their lifes. And theyre agressive to guys that flirt with theyre girls + we dont get along and he knows me well, not the family you want trouble with. Even though she says its over he could think theyre still together just in a break or some sh1t and Turkish guys think women are theyre freaking honour its ridiculous..

So I got a interested hb8 cute girl with a small history with me, that is down to hang out and I feel is pretty easy to lay, some kino, pushpull, sweet talk and its on... she says she wants to come over to chill but the problem: I think I can keep it a secret but she could use me to make him jealous or just tell him in the future that we hanged out ... any thoughts, dropp her and choose safety or just go for it and call her tommorow to pick a date. :cool:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im reading my post back and it's not worth it bro... I'm so lucky again, I'll just let her initiate and see how bad she wants it before making any stupid decisions
 
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