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so I met this girl back in August. we started hanging out a lot. she started opening up to me about personal things in her life. Keep in mind this girl has no family or friends. she just moved here from another country. she started pulling out photo albums of her home. showing me songs that reminded her of me. I would say something about life, and the next day she would tell me how she thought about all night and came to her own conclusion as well. she would call me up to come over and watch TV. one day she even laid down with me in bed, but got up after ten minutes.
All of sudden no talking. after a couple weeks of silence I asked her what was wrong. She said she felt like we were dating and she didn't want to lead me on. So I told her that I cared for her as a friend, but no problem if she didn't want hook up right now...I still wanted to be friends. It was obvious both of us started having feelings. she starts calling me up again two days later. hanging out by ourselves again. then she buys me a present because she was at a store and it reminded her of me...Now I'm getting mixed signals. every time we hung it felt like we were together.
Finally I couldn't take it anymore. I had to break it down. This was probably a mistake, but I've learned my lesson. I told her that I liked her and was starting to care for her a lot. She started getting tears in her eyes, and said she didn't like me that way. After asking why she didn't like me she couldn't look me in the eyes, she started sweating really bad. Then she started making excuses up like I drink, or I've stolen finger nail clippers from the store. This never bothered her before. after this conversation was over she stopped talking to me again. naturally I said screw it and left her alone. every once and while now she'll talk to me. still laughing at my jokes, asking how my knee is doing because I screwed it up a few months ago wakeboarding. I don't know guys. I'm lost on this girl. also I should tell you she's never had a real boyfriend. at least I know she hasn't had one in four years.
Do you guys think this chick was interested but lost it, or is she just being a chick and doesn't know what she wants, and is really confused?
Thanks for the help fellas!!!
so I met this girl back in August. we started hanging out a lot. she started opening up to me about personal things in her life. Keep in mind this girl has no family or friends. she just moved here from another country. she started pulling out photo albums of her home. showing me songs that reminded her of me. I would say something about life, and the next day she would tell me how she thought about all night and came to her own conclusion as well. she would call me up to come over and watch TV. one day she even laid down with me in bed, but got up after ten minutes.
All of sudden no talking. after a couple weeks of silence I asked her what was wrong. She said she felt like we were dating and she didn't want to lead me on. So I told her that I cared for her as a friend, but no problem if she didn't want hook up right now...I still wanted to be friends. It was obvious both of us started having feelings. she starts calling me up again two days later. hanging out by ourselves again. then she buys me a present because she was at a store and it reminded her of me...Now I'm getting mixed signals. every time we hung it felt like we were together.
Finally I couldn't take it anymore. I had to break it down. This was probably a mistake, but I've learned my lesson. I told her that I liked her and was starting to care for her a lot. She started getting tears in her eyes, and said she didn't like me that way. After asking why she didn't like me she couldn't look me in the eyes, she started sweating really bad. Then she started making excuses up like I drink, or I've stolen finger nail clippers from the store. This never bothered her before. after this conversation was over she stopped talking to me again. naturally I said screw it and left her alone. every once and while now she'll talk to me. still laughing at my jokes, asking how my knee is doing because I screwed it up a few months ago wakeboarding. I don't know guys. I'm lost on this girl. also I should tell you she's never had a real boyfriend. at least I know she hasn't had one in four years.
Do you guys think this chick was interested but lost it, or is she just being a chick and doesn't know what she wants, and is really confused?
Thanks for the help fellas!!!
