Interest!

[nan3109]

ok, i finally realizes the DJ'ing only works if the girl is physically attracted to you right off the bat. she will look at you and if your not hot then she wont bother listening to your rambling DJ games of ****y/funny. they'll ignore you tottally!

ive been having this problem recently more often than not. and the girls who show interest in my game prolly are just playing me because ill get their number and it'll be fake or if its real we never end up hanging out and the girl will always seem so eager to let me go off the phone.

the only girls im getting to actually be persistent in getting me to hang out with them are the 2 - 5's in terms of looks.

im 5 foot 8-10' and got highlights and i workout and i do sports. im good at all of them but throughout my life its always been the same. Girls are interested based on how well you dance or play sports or how you carry yourself. Sure, that factor is simportant AFTER the girl gets some physical attraction to you but LOOKS come first.

You can dress however you want but when it comes down to it if your still not "hot" then you wont get anywhere except played with no sex.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

this is a terrible post which makes absolutely no sense in temrs of being a DJ. Looks are very important in terms of first appearances I guess but after that they are just there....
If you read the "Iranian post" about the guy who was persisitent and got the girl you would see that looks aren't that important.
If girls aren't giving you the time of day because of your looks (you have 2 real ugly like, missing an eye or something for this to happen because there are some girls who like you but you can't expect all of them to) then you just have to put that much more effort into your kino, push/pull , and EC game. Other than changing how you dress there is not much you can do about looks so stop b!tching about it and go out there and approach more chicks instead of just the 2-5 range

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Shut the **** up you silly AFC.

 

[Evil-Rom]

Complete and utter BS.

READ:

The Iranian from Hell

AND

THE

FRICKEN

BIBLE.

Thank you have a nice day.

 

[Da Game]

Looks matter, yes. They can give you an advantage, and it'll make girls approach you. But they DON'T MATTER THAT MUCH.

I'm an average looking guy. I'm 6', 160 pounds, I don't work out, and I'm damn skinny. I take decent care of myself, but I know I don't look all that great (slightly above average at best). But I've had girls that showed very little interest at first turn around completely after I talked to them for a bit.

Looks matter in the sense that there has to be a little attraction to start, but as long as you pass that "physical attraction test" you're okay (and it doesn't take THAT much to pass). After that, it's your personality that gets you in.

Also, keep in mind that different girls have VERY different ideas of what guys look good. It's highly subjective, so if one girl thinks you're ugly, it's totally possible her friend would think you're hot.

In the end, basic hygiene, dressing effectively, and having a good personality will get you much farther than good genes alone. So quit blaming problems on your looks.

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

do us all a favor and die...........your post is degrading class A BULLSH1T!!

 

[Eternal]

Been said before in a much clearer way...and proven wrong...I feel dumber now after reading that post...