"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interest levels with high school girls

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This is field tested on my last two girlfriends in a negative way. I didn't mean for it to happen but it is a learning curb for me and now for others.

Situation 1:
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I'm already a ****y kinda guy. If I'm in the right mood I can get a girl going. This was before I knew any of the this DJ/Alpha/PUA ****.

Was at a party. Saw a girl who everyone loved. Half italian. Beautiful but petite girl. We had met a few times before so we started talking. We laughed ...well she laughed a lot. I made her want me. It was easy. Next few days we saw each other and then I asked her out (I hadn't been with a girl for a while so for some reason jumped at the occasion).

She was keen on me in every way and we started seeing a lot of each other. Woops, first mistake. We saw each other every day for like a month. Ooops, another mistake.

Everything was great. Until in the last week of our month and a half relationship she turned sour and broke up with me. What had I done wrong? I didn't know...

Situation 2:
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Friend of another ex-girlfriend. This time I knew a bit more about the game. I was juggling 3 girls and I had no feelings for either of them. I decided to progress with one girl and started having feelings for her. It was about a month before I actually made a move to ask her out. We hooked up before I asked her out.

So everything was great. Hell I met her parents the first night but it wasn't that a big a deal ...I was watching TV at her place.

Things were perfect. Everything was great and I started seeing her everyday nearly (first mistake repeated again). After a month and a she broke it off and said she can't lead me on anymore. She was different in the last week.

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So anyway. Whats the point of this post? Don't ****ing see her that often. Its that plain simple. IL (interest levels) with high school girls can sway so incredible quickly. Girls like their space. Be the alpha and don't give her all the time in the world. I tried to have my own time but she insisted we saw each other ...look how it ended.

I have skipped so many other facts but I'm hung over and I had nothing to do so take this as you will.

Good luck :p
 

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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yes, this is why she tells me I have everything she looks for in a guy, and I am stuck in the friend zone
 

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Originally posted by Soniq_red
Soooo True.

But don't forget interest levels can go back up so If this "rookie" mistake is made it is reversible sometimes.
Oh defenitly. It can make her want you if you suddenly find something else to pursue.

But the general idea is. Don't see her that much.
 

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Originally posted by brenbaus
yes, this is why she tells me I have everything she looks for in a guy, and I am stuck in the friend zone
I had plenty of those. Just deal with that girl and pursue other girls. Especially girls in front of her ...it will make her jealous.

You standing there pleading to have her puts you in her control. However reverse the situation and just be like "sweet, yer friends is good" and go pickup other girls in front of her.

Start talking about all the girls you are getting and don't spend so much time with this 'friend'.
 
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