"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interest levels with high school girls

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This is field tested on my last two girlfriends in a negative way. I didn't mean for it to happen but it is a learning curb for me and now for others.

Situation 1:
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I'm already a ****y kinda guy. If I'm in the right mood I can get a girl going. This was before I knew any of the this DJ/Alpha/PUA ****.

Was at a party. Saw a girl who everyone loved. Half italian. Beautiful but petite girl. We had met a few times before so we started talking. We laughed ...well she laughed a lot. I made her want me. It was easy. Next few days we saw each other and then I asked her out (I hadn't been with a girl for a while so for some reason jumped at the occasion).

She was keen on me in every way and we started seeing a lot of each other. Woops, first mistake. We saw each other every day for like a month. Ooops, another mistake.

Everything was great. Until in the last week of our month and a half relationship she turned sour and broke up with me. What had I done wrong? I didn't know...

Situation 2:
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Friend of another ex-girlfriend. This time I knew a bit more about the game. I was juggling 3 girls and I had no feelings for either of them. I decided to progress with one girl and started having feelings for her. It was about a month before I actually made a move to ask her out. We hooked up before I asked her out.

So everything was great. Hell I met her parents the first night but it wasn't that a big a deal ...I was watching TV at her place.

Things were perfect. Everything was great and I started seeing her everyday nearly (first mistake repeated again). After a month and a she broke it off and said she can't lead me on anymore. She was different in the last week.

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So anyway. Whats the point of this post? Don't ****ing see her that often. Its that plain simple. IL (interest levels) with high school girls can sway so incredible quickly. Girls like their space. Be the alpha and don't give her all the time in the world. I tried to have my own time but she insisted we saw each other ...look how it ended.

I have skipped so many other facts but I'm hung over and I had nothing to do so take this as you will.

Good luck :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yes, this is why she tells me I have everything she looks for in a guy, and I am stuck in the friend zone
 

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Originally posted by Soniq_red
Soooo True.

But don't forget interest levels can go back up so If this "rookie" mistake is made it is reversible sometimes.
Oh defenitly. It can make her want you if you suddenly find something else to pursue.

But the general idea is. Don't see her that much.
 

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Originally posted by brenbaus
yes, this is why she tells me I have everything she looks for in a guy, and I am stuck in the friend zone
I had plenty of those. Just deal with that girl and pursue other girls. Especially girls in front of her ...it will make her jealous.

You standing there pleading to have her puts you in her control. However reverse the situation and just be like "sweet, yer friends is good" and go pickup other girls in front of her.

Start talking about all the girls you are getting and don't spend so much time with this 'friend'.
 
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