Lemme start by saying I'm retarded with girls when I want more than sex. I realized I caught feelings for this girl (A) and I'm not sure how she feels. Thursday I went on a date with another girl (B).
Yesterday I decided to hit up (A) and see if she wanted to hangout. At first, she agreed saying she was going out but that "I should come". I agreed. This eventually turned into her saying "I don't feel like going out cause it's raining out but I'll let you know after work" and then a double text saying "and I feel sick
probably from you!". I just reply "Okay"
So, (A) finishes work and texts me: "Hey sorry! Crazy day so I'm not going out I feel like ****. Going to my friends just to hangout instead. I mean I can meet you somewhere if want to hang out for a little bit. If not I'm off tuesday and tommorow I work until 730 SORRY"
At this point I texted (B) and invited her over to "watch a movie". The rest of my conversation with (A) went like this:
me: "no worries about tonight im hanging out with my friend hmmm i don't want to catch your cooties so tuesday if youre feeling better"
her: "i dont have cooties!!!! and if its your hot friend tell him i say heyyyyyyyy... jk"
her: "I think you gave me the cooties the air where you live made me sick"
I don't reply. (B) came over, we had sex.
(B) leaves. I look at my phone to see (A) texted me again 3 hours later "tried sending you a snap chat but it won't send!" and had sent me three snap chats.
I just reply "haha just let me know which friends number you want and you got it" and then we talked about her snap for like 3 texts.
I think I got (A)'s little hamster spinning around about what I was doing the entire time I didn't text her back. Now, I'm not exactly sure of her interest level. We've been seeing each other about 1x a week and only had sex the last two or so times we've hung out. She has invited me out to hangout with her friends in the past (this is before we had sex) but hasn't since. I guess I'm not really sure what to do at this point. Do I text her monday and ask her to hangout tuesday? Do I not text? I wait for her to contact me first? Do I ask her about hanging out tuesday if she does text me but doesn't bring up hanging out? What do you guys think of this situation?
Yesterday I decided to hit up (A) and see if she wanted to hangout. At first, she agreed saying she was going out but that "I should come". I agreed. This eventually turned into her saying "I don't feel like going out cause it's raining out but I'll let you know after work" and then a double text saying "and I feel sick
probably from you!". I just reply "Okay"So, (A) finishes work and texts me: "Hey sorry! Crazy day so I'm not going out I feel like ****. Going to my friends just to hangout instead. I mean I can meet you somewhere if want to hang out for a little bit. If not I'm off tuesday and tommorow I work until 730 SORRY"
At this point I texted (B) and invited her over to "watch a movie". The rest of my conversation with (A) went like this:
me: "no worries about tonight im hanging out with my friend hmmm i don't want to catch your cooties so tuesday if youre feeling better"
her: "i dont have cooties!!!! and if its your hot friend tell him i say heyyyyyyyy... jk"
her: "I think you gave me the cooties the air where you live made me sick"
I don't reply. (B) came over, we had sex.
(B) leaves. I look at my phone to see (A) texted me again 3 hours later "tried sending you a snap chat but it won't send!" and had sent me three snap chats.
I just reply "haha just let me know which friends number you want and you got it" and then we talked about her snap for like 3 texts.
I think I got (A)'s little hamster spinning around about what I was doing the entire time I didn't text her back. Now, I'm not exactly sure of her interest level. We've been seeing each other about 1x a week and only had sex the last two or so times we've hung out. She has invited me out to hangout with her friends in the past (this is before we had sex) but hasn't since. I guess I'm not really sure what to do at this point. Do I text her monday and ask her to hangout tuesday? Do I not text? I wait for her to contact me first? Do I ask her about hanging out tuesday if she does text me but doesn't bring up hanging out? What do you guys think of this situation?
