"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interest friendzone question

warrior1

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This is probably a very easy question to answer for most of you regulars here. My question is do women all lose interest in a guy they have interest for when the guy never makes a move? Of course if the guy makes the move and the woman declines, she wants to just be friends which is one of the worst case scenario.

Would a women put the guy in the friendzone even though she was attracted to him a bit but because he didn't make a move she puts him in the friendzone? I remember another thread where a woman said that she would not put a guy he was interested in , in the friendzone, but more like a guy that got away.

I'm particularly talking about woman who may have been single at the time they were attracted to you but you didn't make a move. They then got a boyfriend and are good. Would most of these women see you more like a friend now only since they have a b/f or more like a guy they liked but didn't like them much b/c they didn't make a move?

Sorry for making this post confusing. I know my phrasing here is very bad. Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Women will either put you in the friendszone for not making a move or not wanting to sleep with you.

I have been put inside the friendszone for both reasons. I would rather have been friendsed for them not wanting to have been slept with than not making a move. I always regret those girls that I had a chance with but didn't take the chance.

It's been at least two years since I was friendsed for being unattractive to the girl.

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Warrior, I was in a similar situation not too long ago. Remember, humor will get you in her pants and is the language of sex.

While we never want to underestimate the competition, chances are this new boyfriend is a fluke/one night deal. Chances are he will call her too often and it is your job to capitalize on these opportunities to make yourself look better than him, while being somewhat sympathetic and displaying his predictability. One line that really gets them is..."Did your boyfriend start calling again?" Basically, you are trying to prove that he is predictable and understandable which will mean she will no longer have oneitis for him and dump him in a week.

When she says she just wants to be friends what she really means is "Boy, you best take action soon, cause I want some." Remember, obstacles only exist to those that see them. Act like he is the tooth fairy, and capitalize on anything from the list below I will post.

Chances are she still digs you, and believe me, if you follow the program she will dump this guy faster than you would believe.

As far as making moves goes, get in on the kiss close for sure the next time you see her-she might first offer resistance, but like I said, obstacles exist only to those that see them, and if you're confident, you're in like flint. Escalate your moves date by date, and differentiate yourself from the competition with your good humor.

Don't fall into the same traps he may fall into-which includes jealousy-too much infatuation....

You should be glad you got this friends warning early, because now you know the time is right.

Here is that precious list...http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1152791&posted=1#post1152791

Mind **** her and she will be all over you.
 
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