Ok, this one really puzzles me out. My gf says that she likes to have "intense" relations with her friends. As she said, she like to "lives that person, to be close and know very well someone she likes". As far as i know, there's no sex and kissing involved. Can someone translate these ******** to me?
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'Intense" friendships
- Thread starter Wysiwyg
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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ShortyBrown
Master Don Juan
Well if it's a girl and there's kissing involved, wheres the problem? 
Seriously, she's probably very passionate and genuine when it comes to being a friend. That's a very good sign of a loyal person.
Seriously, she's probably very passionate and genuine when it comes to being a friend. That's a very good sign of a loyal person.
seloifter
Senior Don Juan
warning: I did not fully understand the specifics of your post, because the english was a little hazy..... so if I don't answer your question, sorry, please re-write your post.
well, it's a double edged sword... which edge points away depends on what kind of person you are (or are looking for)
this is a person who needs to feel real attachment and bond to someone; like a sibling.
on one hand like sb said, it's probably a sign of real loyalty.
on the other hand, it could also be the sign of a real needy and clingy girl.
then again, alot of girls say they like to "know someone really well"....... but in the end any good DJ can move in for the kill and get it.
if you're trying to get with her, do NOT "get to know her very well" simply because you think she'll like you more. That's the mistake most AFCs make to end up in the LJBF zone.
However, if you're already dating her, then it will most likely make her more comfortable to get to know you a little more.
But.... never give too much too quickly. Don't kill the mystery, even if she says she likes that. If she wants to be around you 24/7 and wants to know every detail of your life....... too bad; she'll have to work for it
well, it's a double edged sword... which edge points away depends on what kind of person you are (or are looking for)
this is a person who needs to feel real attachment and bond to someone; like a sibling.
on one hand like sb said, it's probably a sign of real loyalty.
on the other hand, it could also be the sign of a real needy and clingy girl.
then again, alot of girls say they like to "know someone really well"....... but in the end any good DJ can move in for the kill and get it.
if you're trying to get with her, do NOT "get to know her very well" simply because you think she'll like you more. That's the mistake most AFCs make to end up in the LJBF zone.
However, if you're already dating her, then it will most likely make her more comfortable to get to know you a little more.
But.... never give too much too quickly. Don't kill the mystery, even if she says she likes that. If she wants to be around you 24/7 and wants to know every detail of your life....... too bad; she'll have to work for it
Thanks for the answers. This one got me thinking:
this is a person who needs to feel real attachment and bond to someone
Well, she doesn't have a big family: she doesn't talk to her sisters and brothers, only with her mother. In matter of fact, her relations with her family were terrible in all ways, she had to walk out home because she couldn't stand it anymore. Only now (two or three years ago) she's making stronger contact with her mother. Maybe that's why she's like that.
But i must say this line got me a little worried:
then again, alot of girls say they like to "know someone really well"....... but in the end any good DJ can move in for the kill and get it.
What if she needs too much attention to feel fine? How can i find if she's that type of girl?
this is a person who needs to feel real attachment and bond to someone
Well, she doesn't have a big family: she doesn't talk to her sisters and brothers, only with her mother. In matter of fact, her relations with her family were terrible in all ways, she had to walk out home because she couldn't stand it anymore. Only now (two or three years ago) she's making stronger contact with her mother. Maybe that's why she's like that.
But i must say this line got me a little worried:
then again, alot of girls say they like to "know someone really well"....... but in the end any good DJ can move in for the kill and get it.
What if she needs too much attention to feel fine? How can i find if she's that type of girl?
legolas
Master Don Juan
Because GigaloDJ has way to much time in his hands and he can afford to find himself another girl. He also always NEXTs on contact, like preparation H
What does she mean by "intense friendships?" Look for things like maybe she doesn't want to be exclusive with someone but wants to be intimate and fears commitment. It also sounds like she is looking for a strong emotional attachment that she has lacked before, but not too much so things don't get carried away. Which is why she needs "intense" but only "friendships" and not relationships.
What does she mean by "intense friendships?" Look for things like maybe she doesn't want to be exclusive with someone but wants to be intimate and fears commitment. It also sounds like she is looking for a strong emotional attachment that she has lacked before, but not too much so things don't get carried away. Which is why she needs "intense" but only "friendships" and not relationships.