I've come to the point where I think women are pretty much full of shyt when they say that they want a smart man and that somebody with intelligence turns them on.
I started noticing it in high school but I never really gave it much of a thought. I still got women. I even got more women when I went to college despite my moderate AFCness.
About two years ago it really started to hit me though. Women seem to be intimidated by too much intelligence. I found myself almost feeling like I made them feel inferior. (which normally isn't a problem however it always made them feel an uncomfortable inferior almost like they felt I was looking down on them or they couldn't contribute anything worthwhile to conversations)
Women have this thing I believe, and I think you guys will agree, that they have to be right, at least sometimes. If they feel like they are too stupid compared to you than they probably don't get that sick joy out of teaching us men something or being right.
Maybe it was the fact that I started acting without the AFC behaviors I had held onto for so long that started making me so much more successfull and happy in my relationships... and I'm sure that had the most to do with it, but it I also did something else.
I quit opening my mouth in ways that made her sound less intelligent than me. I stopped unconciously flaunting my brain so to speak. I actually started to make her think that she wasn't a complete moron (even though most of the time she was).
Now keep in mind I never made her feel like she was making decisions, for that is the ultimate sin. I still make the decisions, but I like to make women feel good about themselve when they are with me and I think it makes them happy and me more happy than before.
Maybe you guys can relate to some of this and add to it in some way.
Peace Playas
-J
I started noticing it in high school but I never really gave it much of a thought. I still got women. I even got more women when I went to college despite my moderate AFCness.
About two years ago it really started to hit me though. Women seem to be intimidated by too much intelligence. I found myself almost feeling like I made them feel inferior. (which normally isn't a problem however it always made them feel an uncomfortable inferior almost like they felt I was looking down on them or they couldn't contribute anything worthwhile to conversations)
Women have this thing I believe, and I think you guys will agree, that they have to be right, at least sometimes. If they feel like they are too stupid compared to you than they probably don't get that sick joy out of teaching us men something or being right.
Maybe it was the fact that I started acting without the AFC behaviors I had held onto for so long that started making me so much more successfull and happy in my relationships... and I'm sure that had the most to do with it, but it I also did something else.
I quit opening my mouth in ways that made her sound less intelligent than me. I stopped unconciously flaunting my brain so to speak. I actually started to make her think that she wasn't a complete moron (even though most of the time she was).
Now keep in mind I never made her feel like she was making decisions, for that is the ultimate sin. I still make the decisions, but I like to make women feel good about themselve when they are with me and I think it makes them happy and me more happy than before.
Maybe you guys can relate to some of this and add to it in some way.
Peace Playas
-J
