instantanious sexual attraction..

[organizedconfusion]

okay this is NOT for the guys that think 'logicly' or 'linearly'.
because the concept i am about to share is clearly based on alot
of both theories and concepts that i came up with from both
the field and through facts to back up my findings.

okay, lets look at some things like emotions-
emotions are a right brain function and are instantanious,
almost out of our control.what i mean is, something
happens and you feel a certain way. you don't have to
think about it. there is an earthquake and you heart
races, you start to become more aware,that light switch
in your mind goes off and you're alert. it's automatic.
or when you fishing and you see a bear, what happens?
you are filled with fear and your entire system goes
into panic mode. Or when you see a attractive woman and
you feel that instantanious feeling of sexual arousal.
these are all intense emotions that happen on their own,
correct? you didn't choose how to feel or react to them
it just happened automaticly.
have you ever had the feeling you were being watched,
the hairs on the back of your neck stood up and when
you turned around, someone was staring at you and then they
turned away? or when you first meet someone and you could just
sense something wasn't right about them..and that you just had
a bad feeling about them...have you ever been playing pool
at the billards and you seen a guy and you just felt bad vibes
from him like he was nothing but trouble? you didn't choose
those feelings right? they just surefaced on it's own...


what if there was a way you could tap into that side of your
brain that triggered sexual arousal in woman instantly everytime
you entered a room?anyplace, anytime, anywoman , anywhere-
that same type of instant emotional reaction that was out of ones control?
the type that just happened automaticly..
what if you didn't even have to say a word or even acknowledge
their presence and all the woman became intensly sexually
aroused? woman are after ,all more emotionally receptive then
men are and more in tune with that side of the brain right?
well what if we learned how to use it to our advantage and
'mastered' creating the type of natural instantanious sexual
response that all woman are capable of? if emotions are
instantanious, would'nt it make sense to learn how to trigger
these emotions automaticly?

so how does one exactly induce emotions in others?



before i go on , let's hear of some thoughts about how something
like this would be possible...

 

[reyalp]

let's all learn psychokinesis so we can just play with her cooter from all the way across the room! then she'd be primed for F-close!



maybe you're considering a more paranormal approach to seduction....i certainly hope you're not though.


although PK foreplay would be a great talent to have!

 

[ethnomethodologist]

You mean vibes? I feel people vibes all the time, sexuality is not a VIBE though, it is read from an action.

ISA(instantaneous Sexual Attraction) in the form that you speak of, is called indirect game.

 

[whistler]

Originally posted by organizedconfusion
okay this is NOT for the guys that think 'logicly' or 'linearly'.
because the concept i am about to share is clearly based on alot
of both theories and concepts that i came up with from both
the field and through facts to back up my findings.

okay, lets look at some things like emotions-
emotions are a right brain function and are instantanious,
almost out of our control.what i mean is, something
happens and you feel a certain way. you don't have to
think about it. there is an earthquake and you heart
races, you start to become more aware,that light switch
in your mind goes off and you're alert. it's automatic.
or when you fishing and you see a bear, what happens?
you are filled with fear and your entire system goes
into panic mode. Or when you see a attractive woman and
you feel that instantanious feeling of sexual arousal.
these are all intense emotions that happen on their own,
correct? you didn't choose how to feel or react to them
it just happened automaticly.
have you ever had the feeling you were being watched,
the hairs on the back of your neck stood up and when
you turned around, someone was staring at you and then they
turned away? or when you first meet someone and you could just
sense something wasn't right about them..and that you just had
a bad feeling about them...have you ever been playing pool
at the billards and you seen a guy and you just felt bad vibes
from him like he was nothing but trouble? you didn't choose
those feelings right? they just surefaced on it's own...


what if there was a way you could tap into that side of your
brain that triggered sexual arousal in woman instantly everytime
you entered a room?anyplace, anytime, anywoman , anywhere-
that same type of instant emotional reaction that was out of ones control?
the type that just happened automaticly..
what if you didn't even have to say a word or even acknowledge
their presence and all the woman became intensly sexually
aroused? woman are after ,all more emotionally receptive then
men are and more in tune with that side of the brain right?
well what if we learned how to use it to our advantage and
'mastered' creating the type of natural instantanious sexual
response that all woman are capable of? if emotions are
instantanious, would'nt it make sense to learn how to trigger
these emotions automaticly?

so how does one exactly induce emotions in others?



before i go on , let's hear of some thoughts about how something
like this would be possible...

I'm two months from a doctorate in psychology. So far, I'd have to say you're an idiot.

But please... do go on...

 

[organizedconfusion]

sexual attraction is a right brain function-like any other
emotion.and it can be triggered through the same process
other emotions are triggered. my way is to discover how to
do it instantly, the same way one feels an emotion automaticly
without thinking about it.
Indirect game i would assume is introduced -during an
interaction or prior to it.
my theory is if one could create an intense emotions & sexual
arousal/attraction as soon as she lays eyes on you-
that's all that matters and it makes everything else obsolete.

there are triggers for emotional autonomic responses inside
everyones mind, if someone knew how to trigger certain emotions
at will in others- one could induce sexual arousal as effortlessly
as sub-communicating to someone else as being a physical
threat ( i use that as an expample because of how common it is)

it's not possible? imagine the feelings you get when you see
a super attractive girl, imagine all of the feelings you experiance-
did you have to force yourself to have to feelings?
no, it happened instantly correct? well if those feelings are
present and came about instantly , wouldn't it also be safe to
assume that there is a female equaliant to that feeling
but triggered differently? but still as automaticly WITHOUT
direct contact or communication?
yes, i believe so...

 

[organizedconfusion]

Re: Re: instantanious sexual attraction..

Originally posted by whistler
I'm two months from a doctorate in psychology. So far, I'd have to say you're an idiot.

But please... do go on...

soooooo... you're on your way to becoming a psychologist -and the best you can do is resort to name calling?
braaaaaaaaavo

'you thur thowed mee, huh huh huh'



remember..everything you learned in your psychology
text books were once THEORIES at one point.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

whistler, that was a total waste of space.

confucion, please! Write in paragraphs. Your writing style is so farking annoying.

Your still not seeing the underlying process of what your comprehending. I sense that this is a sticking point for you, you have these inate emotions, and you want to convey these emotions onto other people. Body language, that was one of your ideas, the most valuable one you had in my opinion. You drifted into different aspects of your mindset, and how to convey those to people as well.

What you don't realize is programming. You have been programmed to sense vibes from people. Fear, as you speak of, after seeing the guy in the corner who looks like he could crush you head like a watermelon, is programmed into you. It is not an instinct to feel that, it is subconcious though, but it can be controlled, and it can be eliminated.

You are now trying to INSTANTLY convey sexuality onto other people, it is possible, but not in the way I see you trying to understand it as. Stoptrying to see hidden meaning behind social intereactions, well don't assume hidden meanings in social intereactions and try to manipulate them. The intereactions progress in a certain fashion, due to society, it is not a function that is to be played upon. It is a matter of conforming to beliefs, there is no psychoelemental information being processed instantly inside of peoples heads, without the information already beeing there.

You see a hot girl, why do you think she is hot? You have already run that through your system a thousand times, it's not just there when you are born.
whistler was calling your idea retarded, it's not name calling.

 

[whistler]

Fine...

... ignore me...

Yes, I know nothing of what you're talking about... far be it from me to intrude...

I bid you adieu.

PS -- It was immature name calling. But yes, it was directed at the idea, not the man.

 

[reyalp]

emotions are internal responses to stimuli.

for instance, if there's an earthquake and you're scared, it's because the ground is shaking. your body's response to this is a self-preservation mode, a fight/flight mode. adrenalin kicks in, digestive functions cease momentarily, the whole 9 yards.

these are hard-wired to some extent but people do overcome them. for instance, i'm not afraid of dogs, but some people are. that's not to say that my heart doesn't race for a second when i see a rottweiler come hurtling at me, but i do overcome that fear with rational thinking (ie, I have a gun, I will be ok)

making a woman instantly have a sexual attraction for you, before she even sees you, is impossible due to the absence of stimuli.

also the idea that one single stimulus can make every woman sexually attracted is fallacious in nature. every woman is wired different, largely due to their specific socialization, some due to genetics and general tendencies of homogamy.

this is not to say that there isn't an effective DJ tactic to use on the average woman. it's just to say that there's no infallible method for provoking a sexual response from a woman who hasn't seen, heard, or spoken with you.


if you're really looking for information on illogical and primal sexual attraction, read up on Stockholm Syndrome.
a premise behind stockholm syndrome is that it's a survival instinct. the woman adapts to the powerful male, becoming attached to him and doing whatever he wants.

i'm not saying drag her off in the woods and hold her hostage for 7 days. but reading on Stockholm Syndrome may give you some insight into primitive female attraction. i'm sure there are other incidents that have been analyzed as well, which may provide even more insight.



(btw whistler, if i botched something up here, feel free to correct me. you're the doc! (almost anyway))

 

[organizedconfusion]

i am just trying to make sense of this phenomenon i have 'discovered' in the last past few years... i did the entire 'bad boy' act for as long as i could remember.I actualy even started to question my morals and my character becasue of it. So i toned it down a bit and i 'shut up' basicly, instead of being the hard a$$ arrogant guy that did his own thing- i kinda just went 'on strike' for a while and didn't really talk to anyone. i was somewhat depressed but not really- i was just kinda lost in my ways and wanted to put things on hold in terms of woman.

i still talked to girls and all but nothing heavy...anyways, i noticed at my job- more and more woman were taking notice to me. i didn't really do anything different or unique.most of the time i was just working and doing my job. But atfer a while , it was evident that these girls were taking a liking to me. i figured that there must be something i was doing sub-conciously that triggered them to become attracted to me..i just could'nt figure out what at the time. i thought, if i figured out what i was doing right and then fine tune it to work all the time- i may be able to use it to my full advantage instead of it working haphazardly and unknowingly.

i am not saying that they all were drooling over me, but there were some i definetly pick up strong 'vibes' from. i want to become more in tune with reconizing those vibes and whats causing them during the moment i am recieving them.
this is coming from a different view point of the typical PUA -because the PUA enters the interaction and creates the attraction vibe- i am coming in with the vibe already present.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

thanks for not pressing enter after each line

It's still called indirect game. The thing is though, that girls are all different, some vibes you work on, won't work on most girls. You are trying to become a PUA again, you want instant action, you want to show the whole world how your a master in the area.

It might be the next best thing to being a DJ. Being able to walk into a room, and immediately have girls gushing all over their seats just for you. I don't want to sugar coat this for you...

It's not going to happen.

Things might not always make sense. You've got to be strong. Your scared, you don't want to hear it, I know, I never do either. These sexual interactions never go perfectly, you can't let that phase you. You have to be yourself, YOU have to be the vibe, you can't effectively send off the vibes, without them being part of you.

You need INDIRECT GAME! That is what I'm trying to say, that is what you are looking for

What you've got to do is practice. After you find one key of inducing emtions in a person, practice that exact same technique on somebody else. What if that vibe doesn't work on that other person? To truly spark ISA, you must possess sexual power, You do not have power over something you cannot command.

What you need to do is work on DIRECT PUA methods, know how they work, and than incorporate it into your psyche. Until then, you won't be sending out any vibes. Nobody will look at you, and see anything, if you can't do it conciously.

Emotions, are what comes through in your dreams. Self preservation and aggression are the basics, you must show this in everything you do, even scavengers don't run from their food, they keep poking, grab and run... Your emotions are direct responses to what you do, you must let your emotions out, if they are still in line with survival and are aggressive to procuring your future survival, they will be accepted. Your thoughts, are your problem, they are everybody's problem, they are what you must CONTROL!

You are hoping to express visual value. When things get down to the basics, I see looks as being a show. The most influential people I know, are heard, not seen.