"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Instant rejection

Joined
Aug 5, 2013
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Another night, another rejection. Damn, bruh, when will things turn around?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

skinnyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2013
Messages
3,422
Reaction score
1,235
It's all good man. The moment you start to find humor in it, the better off you'll be. If you wallow in your pain, you're screwed.
 

Vekhematu

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 25, 2013
Messages
57
Reaction score
1
Age
40
Location
Jacksonville, FL
The problem is, you are only asking one *****y girl out of dozens, then letting her kill your mood for the entire night. You are putting far too much value on women's opinions.
 

adam225

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 3, 2013
Messages
728
Reaction score
32
Location
UK
Deus ex Pianoforte2 said:
Another night, another rejection. Damn, bruh, when will things turn around?
When you become happy in yourself and stop pursuing women.

It kills me seeing the effort men go to pursuing women. It's like watching a crack head chasing his next rock. I can think of better things to do personally... Each to his own I guess. ..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

VladPatton

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2012
Messages
3,246
Reaction score
232
Location
NYC
adam225 said:
When you become happy in yourself and stop pursuing women.

It kills me seeing the effort men go to pursuing women. It's like watching a crack head chasing his next rock. I can think of better things to do personally... Each to his own I guess. ..
^^^Agree.
 

TheCWord

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2013
Messages
873
Reaction score
63
Ironically, once you get a plate or two spinning - that's when you care less about pulling women and, consequently, is when you'll start getting them with ease.

Catch 22.
 

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,657
Reaction score
6,614
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
adam225 said:
When you become happy in yourself and stop pursuing women.

It kills me seeing the effort men go to pursuing women. It's like watching a crack head chasing his next rock. I can think of better things to do personally... Each to his own I guess. ..
+1.
 

OldGoat

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 28, 2006
Messages
21
Reaction score
0
adam225 said:
When you become happy in yourself and stop pursuing women.

It kills me seeing the effort men go to pursuing women. It's like watching a crack head chasing his next rock. I can think of better things to do personally... Each to his own I guess. ..
You cant make yourself happy imo. Psychiatrist dont even know the secret to happiness. Ironically they have the highest rate of suicide in the profession.
 

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,657
Reaction score
6,614
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
Because turning inward is the recipe for madness.

Action changes a person from the inside out. Positive action leads to satisfaction which leads to self respect which brings about happiness (contentment).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top