hockeyfreak79
Master Don Juan
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Generational Theory: 80 year cycle with four repeating archetypes. Every 80 years there's a big ass war that kills a bunch of people.In the middle they detail how generations (and their behavior) are cyclic.
Generational Theory: 80 year cycle with four repeating archetypes. Every 80 years there's a big ass war that kills a bunch of people.
According the the theory, Millennials' are the "Hero" Generation. They're supposed to "rise up" and fix things when they go off the rails.
Compared today's "Hero" Generation (Millennials') to the previous "Hero" Generation (GI's who fought Nazi's)
We are SO FVCKED.
Generational Theory
Generational Archetypes
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