Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Instagram Game

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sangheilios

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Define celebrity. Greater than 10k followers? 100k? Certainly there must be a point where women start thinking who IS this guy?
I haven't gone through all of the posts on this thread, but I can think of far better means to meet women instead of relying on instagram.

A celebrity would be....literally a celebrity (athlete, actor, etc.).

You could be a pseudo local celebrity, I actually know of a few guys in my area who have created that through instagram, but I don't really think you should get into something like this. These men have created this image of living an outlandish lifestyle, most of their posts includes pictures of vacations, fancy cars, homes, going to nightclubs, etc. Mind you, these men are all relatively young, late twenties to early 30s, and something just does not quite add up in regards to what they do and the life they portray to live. I am more than sure that these people are in debt up to their eyeballs and/or engage in something that is not at all legal.

With all of that said, you also need to be looking at the types of women that you would be attracting to you by doing this, and in case you aren't aware they generally are not those you'd want to have in your life. You'd be attracting women that are gold diggers and the like, everything about them is fake. The whole instagram/social media thing is all fake, everyone that has a profile does this to some extent.
 

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I think post to reaction score ratio should be considered when considering someone as a shyt Poster
Factor in the percentage of reaction scores that come from the same few goofs and a high reaction score is laughable at best.
 

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I think post to reaction score ratio should be considered when considering someone as a shyt Poster
It's subjective.

The bible generally has good content and if you were to place it in say Saudi Arabia, there's bound to be riots and bible burning but there's bound to be some who might see some truths in it, that's why there's hate.

So it’s highly dependent on the type of audience.

Now if someone wants to have lots of reaction scores here, he just needs to appeal to most of the audiences here.

Postings that gives men a magical 'Penicillin' to cure what ails them will undoubtedly gather the most reactions.

That's followed by postings that caters to what men in general already believes, like BPD or crazy women, this too would garner plenty of reaction scores.

So if one wants a high reaction score, he just needs to fulfil the criteria above.

But then it's just manipulation or a rehash and not good content.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's subjective.

The bible generally has good content and if you were to place it in say Saudi Arabia, there's bound to be riots and bible burning but there's bound to be some who might see some truths in it, that's why there's hate.

So it’s highly dependent on the type of audience.

Now if someone wants to have lots of reaction scores here, he just needs to appeal to most of the audiences here.

Postings that gives men a magical 'Penicillin' to cure what ails them will undoubtedly gather the most reactions.

That's followed by postings that caters to what men in general already believes, like BPD or crazy women, this too would garner plenty of reaction scores.

So if one wants a high reaction score, he just needs to fulfil the criteria above.

But then it's just manipulation or a rehash and not good content.
It's subjective.

The bible generally has good content and if you were to place it in say Saudi Arabia, there's bound to be riots and bible burning but there's bound to be some who might see some truths in it, that's why there's hate.

So it’s highly dependent on the type of audience.

Now if someone wants to have lots of reaction scores here, he just needs to appeal to most of the audiences here.

Postings that gives men a magical 'Penicillin' to cure what ails them will undoubtedly gather the most reactions.

That's followed by postings that caters to what men in general already believes, like BPD or crazy women, this too would garner plenty of reaction scores.

So if one wants a high reaction score, he just needs to fulfil the criteria above.

But then it's just manipulation or a rehash and not good content.
The trouble some ppl will go for some validation.
but yeah i see your point.
I like to think that i can distinguish the good from the bad
 
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