"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Instagram following etiquette

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Unrelated topic--I'm fairly new to instagram (just made an account this year) and am unfamiliar with the following etiquette. For instance there is a girl I know but haven't seen for almost two years that I was thinking about following but her IG is private. She has ~1500 followers but only one mutual follower with me. Would this be seen as being really creepy/stalker behavior or normal? I'm not even interested in a relationship with her, I'm just slightly curious what she's up to. As to why I looked her up, well I look lots of people up out of curiosity who I never follow, but for private accounts, it is impossible to see posts without following.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Julian

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just follow her who cares its not thaf serious bro. get your clout up make these chicks follow you
 
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just follow her who cares its not thaf serious bro. get your clout up make these chicks follow you
Ya I agree, just dont want a reputation for being a creep since I have many mutual acquantences with her. i was also going to do this with many other chicks but dont know if it's frowned upon lol
 
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