"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Instagram following etiquette

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Unrelated topic--I'm fairly new to instagram (just made an account this year) and am unfamiliar with the following etiquette. For instance there is a girl I know but haven't seen for almost two years that I was thinking about following but her IG is private. She has ~1500 followers but only one mutual follower with me. Would this be seen as being really creepy/stalker behavior or normal? I'm not even interested in a relationship with her, I'm just slightly curious what she's up to. As to why I looked her up, well I look lots of people up out of curiosity who I never follow, but for private accounts, it is impossible to see posts without following.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julian

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just follow her who cares its not thaf serious bro. get your clout up make these chicks follow you
 
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just follow her who cares its not thaf serious bro. get your clout up make these chicks follow you
Ya I agree, just dont want a reputation for being a creep since I have many mutual acquantences with her. i was also going to do this with many other chicks but dont know if it's frowned upon lol
 
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