Well, guys in all honesty I'm depressed. My ex left me for an ex. To make things worse she has my kid. I took a couple mins today an realized I'm going down the same path I did when I divorced. So I thought like a female friend of mine. I saught to inspire myself. I know people an things are slow to change. With that in mind I seek to inspire myself to excellence. I can inspire myself by knowing I'm better than him or her. I inspire myself by knowing I'll have more money success an overall happiness. I inspire myself by knowing I have a great career and business savvy. I inspire myself by saying you were the fool who let a great man go. I inspire myself by knowing I'm a great catch. I inspire myself knowing I can look down on her; when she will need me the most. 60 days of no contact starts today.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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keep a log or journal and post it here. itll help a lot and youll get feedback from people here if you need it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.