"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Inspirational moment: Tony Robbins saves an AFC

Roly

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pas4DOwdCX0


Dude Tony Robbins is freakin awesome. I recently bought his book Unlimited Power and most of his concepts are spot on. He talks about how we as people have 6 needs in life. They are:

1.) Certainty- knowing what will happen

2.) Uncertainty- Surprises, problems or life will be boring as hell.

3.) Critical Significance- the need to feel important, thats why people wears tattoos, get boob jobs and want to become famous.

4.) Love and connection.

He said those 4 needs are the needs of the personality. The last two are the need of the spirit- which are the keys to fulfillment.

5.) Growth- You can have a million bucks and a lot of babes but if you feel you are not growing and evolving as a human being, then you will feel empty inside.

6.) Contributing to something beyond ourselves - I guess this is why religion founded happiness for many people, they learned to give.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Roly, intersting post.
I've already seen that video. I think Robbins' is good, but I feel like the couple were more motivated to change already, and Tony just spurned them on a little more. They were ready for change.
I'm glad it worked out for them.
OK, now, you mention in Number 3. that people want to "feel important", and that's why they get "Tatoos, boob jobs,etc".
But yet you say that this facet of personality is "Spiritual"?

I believe that the inherent, and underlying need is Spiritual, but your example are actually misguided attempts at knowing and realizing Self.
These are uneducated attempts to "build" something, or make something from the Inside, STAND OUT.

That's why it's important to realize that our true purpose in Life is to Self Realize and experience those things we desire.
Be it good or bad for us.
At some point, we will look only for the Positive experiences and that's when we really start to live happily fulfilled.
 

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KontrollerX said:
He's a great motivator there's no doubt about it.
And an excellent practitioner of NLP.
 

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I'm a Tony Robbins fan too - I have "Awaken the Giant Within" (the book).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well, the guy's obviously not thinking clearly, because you can't collect life insurance from a suicide -- unless you fake an accident really well, I guess.


The link "Tony Robbins Saves a Marriage" is also interesting. He sounds somewhat DJish: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L3lYDrERSLU&NR=1
 
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