"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Inspiration to all asian men

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Doesn't matter if your asian, native american, indian if you believe you can, then you can.

Good find.
 

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I would say that that dude has a lot of advantages over the asian AFC's like me

a)height
b)terrific body, but he does seem to have a problem with exhibisionism
c)he is photographer, which inherently increases his value to women. Beautiful women, especially model types are always looking for photographers.
d)he is not native chinese or whatever race he is. So he must have a pretty good command over the language. While I wouldnt say I have a problem with speaking in English, being witty in a non-native language requires lots of practice.

must I go on? :)
 

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thinktank1985 said:
I would say that that dude has a lot of advantages over the asian AFC's like me

a)height
b)terrific body, but he does seem to have a problem with exhibisionism
c)he is photographer, which inherently increases his value to women. Beautiful women, especially model types are always looking for photographers.
d)he is not native chinese or whatever race he is. So he must have a pretty good command over the language. While I wouldnt say I have a problem with speaking in English, being witty in a non-native language requires lots of practice.


must I go on?
IT DOESN'T MATTER!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Youre denying reality, Youre living in a fantasy world where your problems dont exist, and that is why change doesnt occur, why you stay a stupid boring geek not achieving the results you crave. Because you dont accept the problems you have and attempt to solve them.
 

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thinktank1985 said:
I would say that that dude has a lot of advantages over the asian AFC's like me

a)height
b)terrific body, but he does seem to have a problem with exhibisionism
c)he is photographer, which inherently increases his value to women. Beautiful women, especially model types are always looking for photographers.
d)he is not native chinese or whatever race he is. So he must have a pretty good command over the language. While I wouldnt say I have a problem with speaking in English, being witty in a non-native language requires lots of practice.

must I go on? :)
Agreed with the above. The guy is hardworking and is very dedicated to his work and workout.

Too bad he made one mistake, and tried to cover up for it with lies after lies, then the Misc chased him away....

Can you say "defiantely?"
 

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L B said:
Agreed with the above. The guy is hardworking and is very dedicated to his work and workout.

Too bad he made one mistake, and tried to cover up for it with lies after lies, then the Misc chased him away....

Can you say "defiantely?"
What did he do that caused Misc to kick him out?
 
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