"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Inspiration needed!!

TheBigShow

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I'm pretty sure I know the answer no doubt we've all been in this situation before.

Basically I've been dating a bird for a few months, all going well and my game has been pretty solid so far. Have been keeping my distance and keeping her wanting more...but she went away this weekend to see her family and BOOM I found myself wondering about her and thinking to much.

Give me some inspiration with your stories guys, how have you handled imminent oneitis in the past?

She's a quality one and I don't want to f**k it up...help me save me from myself hahaha
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheException

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Are you exclusive? If so, stay busy, hit the weights , work in your yard, hang with buddies.

If not? Go out and flirt and chat up other women.


This^

The problem is your having too much downtime right now and your mind wanders. Find some activities that require your undivided attention. Little trick that i do, is often leave my phone out of reach when im busy(mostly because i dont want to be distracted). So for instance i like to go play a round a golf. Ill leave my phone in the car while we are out on the greens and ITS LITERALLY just me and the boys....im fully in the moment. Im not running back to the cart(if i would have brought my phone) every free second i get to check my phone and text a girl. Think about it....thats 4 to 5 hours of time that my mind is off women. Apply similar tactics.
 
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