"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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inspiration movie clips thread

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gents, had an idea that i think will be really good.

given youtube has 1.89253 gabillion videos on it now, i figured we should start a thread of video clips that are "inspiration" when it comes to women, life, all the stuff we talk about here.

I'll start it off.

(from the movie revolver)
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Kgsp-hDL0Rk

not the best quality, but this might be my favourite scene of all time. its the perfect representation of how we fight ourselves and are our own worst enemies in life - how we all carry the devil around in us that makes us to do stupid things if we listen to it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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good clip. definitely will wake you up from feeling sorry for yourself. :p
 
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