"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Insights on interest?

BlueFlyer

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It seems I want to pursue other women when she and I are in the mode of hanging out but lose interest in it when we are not. Has anyone encountered this too? Any insights on what it might mean? Thanks for any thoughts.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jophil28

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BlueFlyer said:
It seems I want to pursue other women when she and I are in the mode of hanging out but lose interest in it when we are not. Has anyone encountered this too? Any insights on what it might mean? Thanks for any thoughts.
Kind of a vague and confusing post- more details might help.
 

BlueFlyer

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Sorry, let me try to add some clarity. When the woman I've been dating and I are in relationship mode, I tend to think of other women. But when we are no longer seeing each other, I don't seem to want to pursue other women. It's almost like a switch flips. I don't know what to make of it but it sure makes discerning my true feelings tricky. Just wanted to know if anyone had experienced this and/or if anyone might have some insights. Thanks again.
 

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Demodulate said:
easy...

people want what they cant have...
Yep ^
You are suffering from a bad case of wanting greener grass.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dear Blue Flyer,
While Jophil is driving his big Ford F110,he yearns to be at the wheel of his Shiny New Caprice......Didn't Granny tell you,you can't have your cake and eat it also?
 

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Scaramouche said:
Ford F110,he yearns to be at the wheel of his Shiny New Caprice.
Do they even make those right hand drive? :up:
 
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