insecurity, and how 2 deal with it

[Zerotwoonenine]

hey guys i am in a long term relationship(over a year and half). i was a nice guy turned don juan. i am pretty good with my relationship and my gf. thing is, i am quite insecure, this developed due to my childhood. anyways i won't go into the details, but i think i got a pretty good thin here. i got all the power and i got her in my hands. now i wanna to ask, what should i be worried about when it comes to guys? here is one message from her to another friend-
OMG there was some guy on my training who looked just like travis from gym class heroes! he was really fit and tall and muscular!! xxxx
i dont stalk her or anything, and i know you guys are going 2 scold me 4 this. also theres this guy from in her class(shes in college, i am going off to uni) and i think he kind of likes her even though hes got a girlfriend, i don't know what she feels about him but she knows i don't like him, yet still she annoys me by askin him to be a friend on facebook(i know its petty) even though they arent in class anymore.
what should i watch out for? what are the signs that should get me worried? i know she is very happy with me(especially in bed with all the multiply orgas and everything). but i just don't understand why she wanna be friends with that peticular guy. please help guys, i know i am goin insecure, so what should i do to reassure my self?

 

[gottiwill]

I wouldn't worry about ANYTHING buddy.
Just know your the man, you call the shots, and your tearing it up.

 

[AKA FLEX]

If it ain't broke, don't fix it. If it's been over a year and a half and things are still that good, just keep doin' what you're doin'.

 

[WC2]

Just remember this..

If your woman is going to cheat on you, she will eventually do it. There's no stopping a woman's feelings from taking her over. It all depends on how confident you are and how happy your woman is in your life/relationship.

All these guys who sweat other guys hitting on their chicks are chumps. They don't understand that not only is it a major turn off to act jealous, but it also just inspires their girl to do MORE to get you angry. Most of the time when our girls talk to other men infront of us it is a simple test. Neutrality passes the test and jealousy fails miserably.

So the bottom line is don't sweat this stuff. The best protection against an unfaithful partner is ever growing confidence in yourself and improvement in your relationship (new things, etc). Concentrate on improving these things and chances are your woman will not stray.

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

ok gotta say. the relationship is going abit NORMAl. i mean i did all i can do durin the first year that her attraction lvl 4 me has reached about max. however she rate me as an 8/10 and she keeps sayin that she want me to get bigger muscles. i mean i am 19 and i am goin to start workin out durin uni(which starts in sep) and i know i'll be the THE MAN. i got brains(psychology,goin to be a clinical psychologist) and i got a body with an potential(which will be reached in uni), but i am not sure she knows that. Also
this summer i need to save money and i can't take her out all the time, and shes complaining. So what do i do?
Also, can every woman cheat? or is it built in in some?

 

[Slick101]

ok gotta say. the relationship is going abit NORMAl. i mean i did all i can do durin the first year that her attraction lvl 4 me has reached about max. however she rate me as an 8/10 and she keeps sayin that she want me to get bigger muscles. i mean i am 19 and i am goin to start workin out durin uni(which starts in sep) and i know i'll be the THE MAN. i got brains(psychology,goin to be a clinical psychologist) and i got a body with an potential(which will be reached in uni), but i am not sure she knows that. Also
this summer i need to save money and i can't take her out all the time, and shes complaining. So what do i do?
Also, can every woman cheat? or is it built in in some?

Nothing you can do man.... most woman dont cheat.... just remember if she keeps hanging out with him and you see she starts talking about him alot... tell her you dont like it...

Dont be insecure but dont be a b!tch

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

true, thanks.ill c if she talks about that guy from work more. since the guy from college don't go to her class anymore(and he has a girlfriend, but he sees her once a month, so i think he wants some company), then i got nothing to worry about