"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Insecurities

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Sofomore

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Hey all,
I am starting to realize that I am a very insecure person. I am constantly thinking about how others perceive me and how I look. How do you over come your insecurities?

Any books that have helped? Any success stories on your part?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shizz702

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Go to the gym and get some muscles.

I could write page upon page of the benefits of having above average strength and muscular development.

It won't come easy though, will take a year minimum to put some signifcant size on you naturally, but I promise if you get in the gym and pay your dues you will be a changed man.

That couple with a few other healthy hobbies, and intellectual stimulation and you will be fine bro.
 
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Diaforetikos

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To be honest, stop coming here and any other dating and/or pua sites. Dating encourages self examination. You have to constantly think about how women perceive you. Always concerned about being the alpha male doesn't help either.

Learn to live a truly happy life without women. I did for quite some time. I can still do it, but I like my current life. Once your satisfied with your life without thinking what others say, you'll be ok. It takes practice and patience.

I looked up to your articles when I was learning this stuff, so know my answer is from a deeper place in my life. So good luck mate.
 
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