Insecurities

[Sofomore]

Hey all,
I am starting to realize that I am a very insecure person. I am constantly thinking about how others perceive me and how I look. How do you over come your insecurities?

Any books that have helped? Any success stories on your part?

 

[shizz702]

Go to the gym and get some muscles.

I could write page upon page of the benefits of having above average strength and muscular development.

It won't come easy though, will take a year minimum to put some signifcant size on you naturally, but I promise if you get in the gym and pay your dues you will be a changed man.

That couple with a few other healthy hobbies, and intellectual stimulation and you will be fine bro.

 

[Diaforetikos]

To be honest, stop coming here and any other dating and/or pua sites. Dating encourages self examination. You have to constantly think about how women perceive you. Always concerned about being the alpha male doesn't help either.

Learn to live a truly happy life without women. I did for quite some time. I can still do it, but I like my current life. Once your satisfied with your life without thinking what others say, you'll be ok. It takes practice and patience.

I looked up to your articles when I was learning this stuff, so know my answer is from a deeper place in my life. So good luck mate.