Insecurities

[everywomanshero]

It's readily apparent to me(and most guys I've talked to) how insecure a lot of guys are. Just drag a handful of guys at random into a karoeke bar and many of them won't even sing in public. In any University course, you will find guys who will not reveal even the tiniest hint of personality. In any big club, there will be a line of guys along the sidelines hiding from the world with beer in hand. That's because men know the importance of social status and (self-defeatingly)can become avoiding of personality and try to be generic.

The thing I think these same guys don't see is how insecure many women are, even attractive ones. An easy way to see this is regarding their figures.

For example, I once had a chick in my posse who was just a few months pregnant, you really couldn't even tell, but when her friends took her to a strip bar she freaked out because her "man" (OK it was me) was going to see women that would have a better body. I think this was double bad for her since she used to be a dancer herself. She wouldn't go in even though her crew wanted to roll there.

I've also seen (and had more guys tell me about) women freaking out when they watch porn with their man. Again, the jealously and insecurity regarding other women having better bodies is HUGE even if the women aren't UGs.

Want a great example? Have some woman show off her huge rock, then when one of the women comment on it, have her say "hey let's see yours" and hold her hand up where everyone can see it's like 1/3 the size!

Obviously this isn't all women, I've dated a woman who even wanted me to pick up chinese chicks for us, I have no idea why chinese, LOL. I've been with women that really liked porn (actually the previous example liked both). There are guys who really like karoeke. There are guys who really like showing their personality.

So when I think about insecurity I don't immediately have some vision of this AFC.. I think about women comparing their bodies to other womens' or their diamond rings to other womens'. I also do think about guys who have fears of showing personality. Thething about all these fears is they never accomplish anything good, they usually don't even protect the person's self-esteem, they just make people feel bad and focus on negative energies.

 

[ChrizZ]

that´s totally true. So many people act fake because they don´t want to be social outcasts. I don´t care if I piss people off. I do what I think is right...

 

[Nasman]

It's readily apparent to me(and most guys I've talked to) how insecure a lot of guys are. Just drag a handful of guys at random into a karoeke bar and many of them won't even sing in public. In any University course, you will find guys who will not reveal even the tiniest hint of personality. In any big club, there will be a line of guys along the sidelines hiding from the world with beer in hand. That's because men know the importance of social status and (self-defeatingly)can become avoiding of personality and try to be generic.

The thing I think these same guys don't see is how insecure many women are, even attractive ones. An easy way to see this is regarding their figures.

For example, I once had a chick in my posse who was just a few months pregnant, you really couldn't even tell, but when her friends took her to a strip bar she freaked out because her "man" (OK it was me) was going to see women that would have a better body. I think this was double bad for her since she used to be a dancer herself. She wouldn't go in even though her crew wanted to roll there.

I've also seen (and had more guys tell me about) women freaking out when they watch porn with their man. Again, the jealously and insecurity regarding other women having better bodies is HUGE even if the women aren't UGs.

Want a great example? Have some woman show off her huge rock, then when one of the women comment on it, have her say "hey let's see yours" and hold her hand up where everyone can see it's like 1/3 the size!

Obviously this isn't all women, I've dated a woman who even wanted me to pick up chinese chicks for us, I have no idea why chinese, LOL. I've been with women that really liked porn (actually the previous example liked both). There are guys who really like karoeke. There are guys who really like showing their personality.

So when I think about insecurity I don't immediately have some vision of this AFC.. I think about women comparing their bodies to other womens' or their diamond rings to other womens'. I also do think about guys who have fears of showing personality. Thething about all these fears is they never accomplish anything good, they usually don't even protect the person's self-esteem, they just make people feel bad and focus on negative energies.

Are u kidding me? This is a don juan forum and this is what we get. I am starting to question this guys gender.

Let me ask you something everywomanshero? How is this going to help us pick up chics. Can u answer that?

 

[ChrizZ]

Are u kidding me? This is a don juan forum and this is what we get. I am starting to question this guys gender.

Let me ask you something everywomanshero? How is this going to help us pick up chics. Can u answer that?

It teaches us how to be indifferent. By being confident in yourself you are indifferent from many people because many people are insecure. Indifference (in this case being alpha male) attracts chicks. Question answered?

 

[Nasman]

It teaches us how to be indifferent. By being confident in yourself you are indifferent from many people because many people are insecure. Indifference (in this case being alpha male) attracts chicks. Question answered?

Thanks for answering my question to him. I will keep this in mind when I go out sarging.

 

[The Juan and only]

Are u kidding me? This is a don juan forum and this is what we get. I am starting to question this guys gender.

Let me ask you something everywomanshero? How is this going to help us pick up chics. Can u answer that?

Nasman, you're a living joke. please stop posting.

 

[DarkLight]

Nasman bro... your goin up against the wrong heads.
Spend more than a month here, and see whats up.

Everywoman's... good post.
It incredibly important to shed light on the fact, that women, especially HB's can be incredibly insecure. They're entire apparatus of attraction is more on a physical level, such that their basis of value is so readily comparable. This creates for deep insecurities. Just look at the booming business of fashion mags, makeup, clothing, etc. Its all an extension of beauty... a woman's first allure.

I've found that the hotter the chick (usually), the more locked into the mass-media dream she is. Thus, suffers the consequences of living through someone else's pre-determined reality. Be it "Vogue" "Cosmo" or any other facet of "the Machine." This creates an inner paradigm/world of such a shallow sense of self-value. Not knowing "thyself" beyond the media's dream... is to be a slave to corporate forces. And in that... most of these girls are the easiest to get played. Why? Cause their such drones of cause and effect. Just like a chess game, you pull all the right moves (what society deams "hot")... and you've taken the queen. Herein lies the power of game. Its the deconstruction of the game of attraction. And who better a target, than the somnabulistic babe... living the dream in a sleep-walk.

Its a pleasure to be on this path, and be gifted into knowledge that yields such power. I urge you all to understand the deeper dynamics of "the dream" and how to PLAY IT. Therefore you can succesfully get yourself into opportunities in which you can then shine reightous light.

Any man who has ever loved a woman, can tell you the joy and power of such a postion. You can literally mold them like clay. And in that... an amazingly beautiful opportunity is there to BETTER! I urge you all to accept your position as MEN, and furthermore... PLAYERS IN THE GAME! Take this truth, capitalize on it, enjoy the fruits and better the world.

Peace'

P.S. I'm sure my haters will read this and think nothing but BS. In that, such a an urge of understanding and spirit will not get them laid. But HOW WRONG THEY ARE. Such is the essence of what MAN is made of. And what attracts woman more than MAN!?

 

[cyp6]

awsome post.. was very intersting to read!