"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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insecured posts! oops...

pancakepalace

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I just realized something bad. I posted with a previous handle a few months back that was taken from my hotmail account. Hence, [email protected] gave my something as my sosuave login...

Well, stupid me, anyone who googles this will stumble on my posts here. By what I have written, anyone who knows me would recognize the situations...

Hopefully an ex won't to that...

I feel horrible...

On another note, I tried to make a new login today and when I try to post it says I can't. Anybody know why that is?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MoonieTX

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After your post, I googled my username too. Oh man, this could be a sucky situation for sure.
 

pancakepalace

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well no correcting this problematic situation

nice web page spider... I am a programmer doing php so I'll test some stuff there... I also enjoyed allyourbase a lot... Thanks!!!
 
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