"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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me and this insecure girl are talkin, she never brings it up, like she hides it well, but she defiantley deosnt think seh is hot,, how do you deal with girls like this
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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don't get into an LTR with this type of girl. Just gonna lead to problems in the long run. At least that has been my experience in the past.
 
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Every girl is filled with insecurities. I suspect that even the dominant American female (a species all to herself) has many insecurities. It is your job to magnify those insecurities. This is the only way she will grow. She can't hide from them when you are around. It is your job as a man to be her teacher and guide. For, without you, she is incomplete and lacking any true hope for a better life.
 
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i agree with wiesmann.

but hey, u got your low self esteem girl....and u got the opposite, the one that thinks she's the prize and has a huge ego.

its safer to find a girl in between. a healthy dose of self esteem for both is a healthy relationship
 
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