"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Insane Oneitis in work environment, need help

Suave88

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Never a good idea to mess around with employees. Can’t go back in time and change that but the best thing to do moving forward, IMO, is to stop engaging with her in any flirty way. If she has dropped off interest let it be. Really, this isn’t some social group dating scenario where you are at leisure to ponder over her actions. She’s your employee, your are her employer and the risk is way way too high for you, not for her, remember that. It’s not appropriate, and you are risking your job your reputation if you don’t let it go. That’s really all there is to it here. I don’t advocate cheating but if you want some strange, keep it away from the employee pool at least.
Well, when man is in love, he uses his penis to think, not his brains....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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