Inquiry for those with authentic self confidence

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

ChristopherColumbus

Master Don Juan

Sep 28, 2016

As you believe so you are.

The problem is that the more realist minded will ask whether that is delusional.

So you had first a natural state of being, which once synthesized all your instincts into a coherent whole. Yet the suspicious analytical part came to interrogate the rest. This led to a shallow philosophy and despair.

I think the task is to regain the natural equilibrium, which is one of confidence and faith. Your Will is the master, reason the mere hand-maiden.

I feel a poem coming on.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.